allows citizens to share information they have about criminal sex offenders,
exchange resource links and post comments in a social style community. Daily
updates with links to state and county government sex offender registries,
sheriff's offices and news of sex crimes and related prosecution.
The North Carolina Sex Offender and Public Protection Registry was established in January 1996 due to the General Assembly's enactment of Article 27A of Chapter 14 of the North Carolina General Statutes (NCGS 14-208.5).
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Oct 17, 2005 02:10 PM
This website is very informative.
Posted by Maranda (not registered) on Jan 25, 2006 04:15 PM
i just wanna say that i am a victim of sexual abuse and any person that would do this to somebody should be locked up, butt all these 14 year old girls lyin about their age and beggin older men for sex is crazy. Peoples records are being messed up for the rest of their lives because of somethin that wasnt their fault. Somebody needs to do something about these hoes!
Posted by thehunter (not registered) on Jan 30, 2006 03:24 PM
the last person who wrote on the 25th seems like an idiot and probably is an offender to write something so stupid.
Posted by anthony (not registered) on Jan 30, 2006 11:52 PM
I know someone who got in trouble when he was 18, and was branded for life for it, yet he hasnt been in trouble with law ever again, he 's a devoted single father of 3 children and a devoted christian and yet his life will never be the same, but yet in my eyes and others hes a great man
Posted by Samantha (not registered) on Mar 07, 2006 06:22 PM
I am so glad that my friends showed me this website. I can now walk down the street and recognize if someone's a threat or not. All sex offenders need to be dealt with. Rape and molestation is disgusting. I am 14 and at my high school, we have started groups and clubs raising awareness. i think this sight is very helpful.
P.S. I THINK ALL SEX OFFENDERS SHOULD HAVE THEIR FAVORITE BODY PARTS REMOVED!!!!!!!!!!! THEY DISGUST ME!
Posted by thehunter (not registered) on Mar 24, 2006 11:42 AM
ignorance is not an excuse for the law.....I am sure he is a christian now and very well maybe a GOOD MAN.
However, Most people who committ sex crimes (etc.) are usually discribed as that; A good person. It is how they wish to be viewed to trick society. The outside may have changed but the inisde is still the same.
Every case is always up for review and determining the circumstances is up to a jury.. There are different definitions as to what type of an offender can be.
Posted by do the crime do the time (not registered) on Mar 29, 2006 08:47 PM
I agree with thehunter on all points. To the person who kept writing "yet" about being a good Christian or whatever are you talking about someone you are close too?! If he is such a good guy then let's see him admit his crime to his children that he should not be allowed to have because people who do that kind of stuff are the biggest hypocrits when it comes to protecting their own family. Anyone who is sick enough to do such crimes need to be removed from society for good. It's not a mistake it is a PRE-MEDATED perverted control issue. An eye for an eye is what I say.
Posted by payback (not registered) on Mar 29, 2006 08:48 PM
an eye for an eye
Posted by Greg Guepy (not registered) on Apr 11, 2006 05:11 AM
I can't be bothered with anything these days, but such is life. I don't care. So it goes. More or less nothing seems worth thinking about. I've just been hanging out waiting for something to happen, but that's how it is.
Posted by thehunter (not registered) on Apr 15, 2006 08:12 PM
what the heck are you talking about "Greg". Are you a sex offender or were you just venting?
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 28, 2006 08:02 PM
Why is it that an offender in IN doesn't have to reg. here after he moves to NC? He is reg. there, but his offence happened here.
Posted by David (not registered) on May 04, 2006 04:26 AM
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Posted by Sheila (not registered) on May 25, 2006 07:56 AM
well this is a very hard subject for me because I was molested as a child then years later was raped as an adult it took years for me to learn to cope with what had happened to me as a child then when I got raped when I got older I all but had a nervus break down so my feelings on this subject runn very deep now to top it off in the trailor park I live in a child molester has moved in to one of the rentals I own my home and can't afford to move it and the guy that rents his trailor to this pervert says we all are over reacting cause we want him out of here but the way I feel is that a child molester or a rapest should be fixxed so they can't even ever have any kind of sex again and they should lock them up and throw away the key but I could think of some torcherous ways to punish them but it's not legal so it can't be done but either case they are very sick people or evil one I haven't figured out which I say evil but everybody else says sick but they should take all sexual offenders and put them on an Island right by their self that way they can't hurt any one else cause I don't ever want anyone to go through what I went through and may God bless you if you do ever have to go through it
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jul 07, 2006 07:24 PM
Not all people found "guilty" of these crimes are actually guilty. Minors can still be told what to say and/or be threatened by family members to make false accusations. Defense gets costly, people give up fighting even though they will be branded for life by lies told in the same courts that are said to be there to protect all citizens. Each case. Accuser and the accused must be looked at individualy. Both before and after conviction. And no. I am not a offender. I am an educated individual that treats each person fairly and looks at ALL sides and players in the courts
Posted by Subrosa (not registered) on Jul 29, 2006 03:53 AM
All the cops and courts need to put a male on here is a female to SAY it happened. The female gets rewarded and the male's life is over! Female sexual offenders get off very light, if there is any punishment at all. It will always be so. The cops and courts work exclusively for females exclusively!
Posted by concerned grandma (not registered) on Jul 30, 2006 12:07 AM
Thank you site is informative & helpful What a sad shame for people to be so unchristian to hurt children May God bless the victims & allso the offenders!
Posted by Joy (not registered) on Jul 30, 2006 09:11 PM
I think that anyone who sexually violates someone should have the same done to them in the worst kind of torturous way. They are inhuman and shouldn't be aloud to walk the streets. They should all be put on a deserted island where there were no hopes of escape surrounded by psycho of their own kind. The problem in America today is our society has no one to blame but self because we choose those who make our laws and if we don't like them, find someone to uphold our beliefs. It is the same as killing someone because the victim is robbed of there soul!!!!
Posted by Mom of the molested (not registered) on Aug 04, 2006 08:46 PM
Molestation is one of the hardest,most horrible and lasting crimes ever commited. Firstly, my daughter was 15 years old and was molested by her step-father. He has since paid off many to make them believe it was only a lie by a disrespectful teenager. She was "molested for three years and held her silence. My husband now ex, degraded and hurt all the family around him. My daughter whose life he dismissed as nothing but to fill his own pleasures now lives across the country without family or support, because she wanted away from him. Not only does this destroy marriages but it ruins all lives and relationships around the person. This man deserves a stiff jail sentence but he scared my daughter so much she ran. now she is of age so I could not help her take him to court. These types of men are narrastic and sociopaths that feed on thier victems then blame everyone else for thier problems . I hope North Carolina destroys these offenders lives as they do thier victems.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Sep 04, 2006 11:44 AM
I would just like to say, if you go the NC general assembly you will find how EASY it can be for someone to be labled a 'sex offender' or 'chhild sexual molester' and have their lives ruined.
The exact wording is..."If someone touches a child on ANY part of their person and it is PERCEIVED by someone to have been of a sexual nature they have commited a crime of a sexual offense.
How many of us have NOT rubbed a child on the back or patted them on an arm or leg. I hate to say it but, in our state, there, but for the grace of God could go any one of us! All it would take would be a young boy or girl dying for attention, a police officer looking for their fifteen minutes of fame and an overzealous prosecutor looking to be elected judge!
Not EVERYTHING is as it may appear...no matter how flat you make a pancake...it still has two sides and in the state of North Carolina, if a person cannot PROVE they didn't commit these acts...say hello to Central Prison!
Posted by Steve (not registered) on Sep 11, 2006 07:32 PM
This site is very good NC has, and I have read many posts pro & con. Nothing in life is perfect butthis needs to be as it is.
Reflecting on another situation I am aware of, sadly. after remarrying a few years ago, I found my wife was a victim of molestation by an uncle over 20 years ago when she was younger, and his wife at that time, filed for divorce and he evenw ent to prison because of charegs against his own 2 girls then. But all these years, my wife has struggled wiht many problems internally and counseling, etc. all because of this, and we are dealing with it day by day; but the uncle was let out of prison years early for good behavior then we found, and to this day he and his family deny anything happened and call my wife crazy or mentally ill, and we have researched this case the best we can, except for one snag- in Tennessee where the uncle lives and this all happened, becaus eof some law, records prior to 1996 we are told have beens ealed and not public!!!
And the uncle was recently arrested for not notifying the state of a new address change he made, he and his 88 year old mother and aunt went to bat for him, and after a coupl;e eharings, the whoel arrest was dropepd and blamed on paperwork mistake by his reporting officer he was to notify. So this outrages my wife mroe he got away again, andf when she tried top copntact DA handling that recent arrest, they will not tell us anything and said she will have to go to police and file charges to re-open the former sealed case to do anything else..
LAst year, we found out he was going to marry a woman who looked a lot like my wife and she had a 7 year old girl, and my wife contacted that woman and told her of what happened to her, and this women left with her daughter fast!!
But Tennessee is not as open with information about sexual predators as NC it seems or other states and this has frustrated us more dealing with ym wife's current counseling and emotional troubels she ahs held onto for many, many years because nobody in her immediate family to this day will believe her or what happened..
Posted by ditro (not registered) on Oct 23, 2006 01:18 PM
"Posted by: Subrosa (not registered) on July 29, 2006 at 03:53 am
All the cops and courts need to put a male on here is a female to SAY it happened. The female gets rewarded and the male's life is over! Female sexual offenders get off very light, if there is any punishment at all. It will always be so. The cops and courts work exclusively for females exclusively!"
I am living proof that this is not the case. Rewarded?? The female is rewarded?? FOr what?? Have you seriously looked at the statisitics?? My case and many others like it make women not want to go to trial. I think that going to trial is the best thing to do, but I have no closure, that man is still out there. I have done all I can do, if he never does it again, it was worth it, but if he does, I'll be there, testifying again, and I will write letters to that judge, his defense attorneys, and the DA in my county, so that they know what they did, when they allowed him to walk after 75 days. (almost a year and half after the rape they finally convicted him) Of a misdemeanor nonetheless. He is not on this registry, but he is supposed to be, wonder who I need to talk to about that.
If you think that all women have to do is say something, you are wrong. Even with loads of evidence, rape kit, and an investigation (not so well done) pics of bruising, you name it, IT WAS NOT ENOUGH!! The university, DA, Judge, town, failed me, but as I said, if he doesn't do it again, I did my part, even if that only means I scared the hell out of him.
Posted by Anonymous 3 (not registered) on Jan 12, 2007 05:07 AM
Here is the deal in a nutshell. Females mature sexualy at the young age of 12 to 16 years. Therefore older males are attracted to them. The problem is the laws are set up to protect these girls. Pure and simple!
Posted by Jane (not registered) on Jan 13, 2007 02:42 AM
I think people who sexually abuse children are sick and should be locked up. Most people on sex offender lists are there for second degree sexual assault which is engaging in sexual behavior with someone between the ages of 13 and 16. So if you do your homework even people under the age of 18 although not many get put on these lists. Girls do lie about there ages. If a person says there older and you find out later their not. Even though your under the impression there legal your guilty. Me and my boyfriend have six year old and 1 year old. Because I was under 18 and he was 18 he was convicted of a non-registerable offense. But his charges were terrible. Were still together. Even though all sexual contact were consentual, under most state laws if your under 18 you dont have the right to consent. Most people havnt done there homework. There are many people who lie about there age and get other people in trouble. I know girls in my class that got multiple people in trouble maybie something should also be done in educating girls on the harm they can cause to someone whole life by lying about there age. Because again if I tell you Im 18 and I look act and seem to be older, and am found to be underage youll still be charged with a sexual offense most likely convicted probably labeled as a sex offender even if I admit I lied. Because thats to bad. Not knowing or being decieved is no excuse. Many people on this list are only 18, 19 and 20.
Posted by Ginger Bish (not registered) on Jan 13, 2007 10:51 AM
I lobbied the NC Assembly to make the registry available to the public and increase penalty for registry violation. A recently released convicted SO from another state victimized my daughter. At his sentencing, I told the judge he would do it again. Shortly after his release he was again arrested and is now in prison. He has spent much of his adult life in prison, but the short periods of release are devastating. He had 2 years added for registration violation. In retrospect, vehicle and employment information should have been included in registry information. For that oversight, I accept full responsibility. I have been dismayed that registry pics are often poor or missing and even addresses are often missing. That is the fault of the law enforcement agency of jurisdiction. Two major flaws in the registry system are failure to confirm information and lack of aggressive pursuit of known violators. It can take up to a year before law enforcement is even aware a registree has absconded and they are not pursued as vigorously as they should be. Registrees need to be monitored on a bi-monthly basis to make sure they are where they are supposed to be and should be vigorously pursued if they abscond with info released to the media. You may contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Posted by jesika (not registered) on Jan 28, 2007 03:28 PM
In my opinion i think all sexual predators should be killed. they sicken me and i hope they all get whats coming to them.
Posted by concerned1 (not registered) on Feb 01, 2007 12:15 PM
I think all of these animals that are convicted as sexual predators should be monitored for the rest of their lives. There location should be known at all times if they are released from prison while they are still alive. They have a sickness that can not be cured. They should never be allowed to roam free again without monitoring.
Posted by anon (not registered) on Feb 19, 2007 05:24 PM
August 2000 . Steven McGonigle went to the home of a Douglas County, Colorado teenage girl, told her he had a package for her parents, and attacked her with a stun gun.
The package he had with him was what is known as a rape kit - it contained a handgun, two knives, rubber gloves, rope, handcuffs and pantyhose.
He told the court he was under pressure - his wife was in NC preparing a new home for them - - and he was allowed to move to NC!
I was curious - - then shocked to find he is NOT on the predator's list.
Question - is he out of the state now? Or did he avoid havig to register because Colorado didn't push to convict?
If he is living in NC - - well, he was caught in the act by the girl's aunt - Lord knows what would have happened if she had not walked in on them. I would hope he would have to register no matter what state he is in.
Posted by Katherine (not registered) on Mar 23, 2007 06:53 PM
I was sexually assaulted when I was 17. The man that raped me was already a registered sex offender; he molested his 11 year old foster-sister when he was 19. He was my boyfriend's roommate and no one knew he was an offender. He would wait until the girls were asleep or voulnerable and then coherce them to sleep in him room. I was asleep and awoke to him straddling my neck. So for those of you who say "it ruiened his life b/c he has a record now," did you ever think of what its done to the victim? I'm 22 now and the memories and pain as well as the guilt from keeping my "secret" from my family and friends has eaten away at me. It took a whole 4 mins for him, but it will be with me for the rest of my life!
Posted by JhuCei(non-offender affiliate) (not registered) on Mar 24, 2007 07:45 AM
Has anyone read the sentences these guys are getting? They are far from harsh enough. Some are getting 157 days, 5 months, and probation w/ no time in jail. So police , if I'm a young girl and someone takes indecent liberties with me, I'm supposed to feel better and just let that go because he's served his little BS sentence? I think victims of sexual crimes should take the adrenaline they get when they are being violated and just physically harm or destroy their oppressors in the moment. They may not get little, no time or probation. I don't feel like the people should ever get out before 7 years when they scar someone for life and pedophiles and molesters are incurable so when you find out something is wrong with them make sure someone checks on them frequently. They should not be relied on to notify anyone of what they are doing with their free time.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Mar 24, 2007 09:03 AM
i am a sex offender by law. i servered my time in prison for my mistake. although my mistake was also that of a 15 yr old girl who lied about her age. i did not know she was under age. she played me for stupid and i got into trouble. i am a good man with 5 children and a loving wife who works hard for my family i think sex offenders should be rated on the issue of their defense theres my issue and then theres people who rape children we are totally different yet looked upon as the same its not fair maybe these 15 yr old girls who trick older men into sex should be held reliable too by the way she was 15 and i was 20 at the time.......please comment on this message!!!!!
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 25, 2007 12:08 AM
'an eye for an eye' Let me finish your sentence for you.
An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
Posted by AnonymousGirl (not registered) on Mar 25, 2007 10:54 AM
Anonymous, I am 21 years old and when I was in high school, I saw countless girls who tried desperately to act and dress MUCH older than they actually were. Obviously, they were striving to get attention and most of the time, the attention they were getting was inappropriate because it came from older men. I am not saying that it is fair for girls to lie about their ages and then blame the older men just to avoid being labeled a "slut" for having voluntary sex. That's wrong in every aspect. I do, however, think that the older men, of all people, should know better and whether or not a girl LOOKS older than she actually is, a man should think twice about having casual sex with someone that he obviously know nothing about. If a man knows enough about a girl before he has sex with her, then he would know her age. By the way, my comment is just addressing your particular situation. I'm not addressing those sexual predators out there who rape or molest little girls (or girls of any age, for that matter). That's a separate issue in itself. Thanks.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 29, 2007 10:43 PM
I use to feel like anyone who hurt a child should be punished until I seen a
case of a good christian man being accused of such a crime and I know that he did not such a thing.
I understand that people who have been molested or raped are hurting but not everyone is guilty of the crime that they are being accused of.
all I am asking is not to be so quick to judge others based on what another person says. anyone can say anything they want also about you and next thing you know you are the one in court defending yourself.
however I do believe that if they are guilty they should be punished but not for the remainder of their lives. as for anyone that has ever been hurt i truely hope that God will heal your pain.
Posted by Tammy (Hexgirl) (not registered) on Mar 31, 2007 08:57 PM
I can understand where you are comeing from, but always remember there are some whom falsely do get accused and that is so sadd for them and their familys, But also keep into mind these Offenders, and Preditors do not have a specific look, they come from all walks of life, weither its from a lawyer, to a machine operator, a because some one may be so into God Spirtually, They still come from all walks of life. I know I have had my son molested by someone I never thought would hurt, touch, or threaten him, and it has made me wake up to reality in a way I already thought I was aware of, but in my sons case I was not because it was a family member whom hurt him, and last Tuesday after waiting almost a year for a Trial or a plea, my Step Brother got 7 years in prision, with a life name of a Preditor, and out of thoses 7 years sentenced, he only has to searve 85% percent of the time if he has good behavior, now you tell me how can the goverment allow someone to get out on good behavior when the bad behavior was why they got there in the first place? Even though I do not agree with the States decision, I still am trying to make a point that no matter what type of person you come to be, we all need to be carefull, and help protect our children, because the Goverment says that they are getting stronger and harsher on these preditors, and offenders, First hand i can tell you that they are not.Florida is not hard at all.
Posted by Hexgirl (not registered) on Apr 01, 2007 01:37 PM
I have learned the HARD WAY, do not judge a book its cover, they come in all outlooks of life.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Apr 01, 2007 10:11 PM
Sex Offenders are sick mentally and anyone that tells you they can be cured is wrong. I don't think there is enough legislation out there to protect the public. they should have MANDATORY FLOURESCENT COLORED LICENSE PLATES, Their employer should be notified, and ALL RESIDENTS WITHIN A HALF MILE AREA should be notified. Additionally they should be on the registry for life, should have to undergo psychiatric evaluation every six months AND SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED TO ATTEND ANY PUBLIC PLACE FOR ANY FUNCTION WHERE CHILDREN ARE PRESENT!!!
They should NOT be able to go to birthday parties for family members in public places where children are present.
Additionally, I believe that if they are gainfully employed, they should be forced to repay the State they live in for the costs of monitoring them, and that money should go into a fund to help victims that are assaulted or abused by a sex offender.
I would not mind seeing a tattoo on their forehead also that says SO.
And in regards to the buys that are crying about being a sex offender
because the girl "lied" about her age, too bad so sad, should have kept the pants zipped until you had proof positive of her age. It is still your fault. You chose to play with fire and got burned, I do not feel sorry for you at all. Take your punishment like a man, you wanted to act like one with an underage girl, then deal with it now.
Posted by sam (not registered) on Apr 06, 2007 09:18 PM
I know that a sexual offense is an offense. My husband is a registered sex offender b/c of an ex-girlfriend he had when he was younger got mad and turned him in to the cops b/c she was 16 b/c they broke up. Now b/c of this we can't get an apartment b/c of background checks, and we have even had problems with social services b/c we have a 4yr old son and my husband is a "sex offender" they should have some sort of classification system for sex offenders other than the one in use now. that is a label to haunt someone forever
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 20, 2007 09:45 PM
The web site is informative, but how up to date is the information. I noticed that some of the addresses on these sick people hasn't been verified in a couple of years. Why not?
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 25, 2007 02:22 PM
I AM GLAD THIS WEBSITE EXISTS. A CO-WORKER OF MINE SENT ME THE LINK TO LOOK AT SOMEONE WE BOTH KNEW. BUT LATER DISCOVERED THAT THE ASSISTANT PASTOR/KEYBOARDIST AT OUR CHURCH WAS A REGISTERED OFFENDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALSO TO THE COMMENTER WHO CALLED UNDERAGED GIRLS WHORES......LET ME JUST SAY THIS.......IT'S NOT ALL THE GIRLS FAULT. THESE MEN NEED TO LEARN TO EXERCISE SELF-CONTROL. AND NOT LOOK AT WOMEN LIKE SEXUAL OBJECTS.
Posted by jcb (not registered) on Apr 27, 2007 10:10 PM
can anyone tell me what a 1st degree sex offense against a minor means.
IT MEANS SEXUAL BATTERY UPON PERSON UNDER TWELVE YEARS OF AGE. TO FIND OUT MORE INF... ON WHAT CAN HAPPEN TOWARDS PRISION OR CONV.... GO TO YOUR CLERCK OF COURT IN YOUR AREA AND YOU SHOULD FIND THE ANSWRES THERE. IF NOT CALL THE STATE ATT... OFICE AND THEY CAN DIRECT YOU WHERE TO GO, AND WHO TO TALK TO. TAMMY(HEXGIRL)
I SWARE I CAN SPELL I JUST MESS UO ON THIS SIGHT. SORRY
Posted by Donna (not registered) on Apr 30, 2007 06:51 PM
In response to.... we tell our children what to say. That is far from the truth. I have spent the last 7 months with a beautiful little girl that has been molested by her 75 year old step grandfather. Because there was no physical evidence it was going to be impossible to arrest him. We have had her interviewed by detectives and videoed, interviewed by professionals at a center in Wilmington and also examined. She had several visits in WS with a physcologist that determined that she was telling the truth, interviewed by Social Services that knew she was telling the truth. But because of lack of evidence we had little chance of an arrest. After writing the governor and anyone that would listen, We finally got our arrest. His first court date will be May 9th and with a little prayer I personally hope he rots. The laws need to be changed for the little victims. I know in my heart if I had not of persued this matter this man would be free. This little girl is the love of my life and for what he has done to her, her future scares me. Getting this person arrested for this crime was the hardest challenge I have ever faced in my entire life. If this had of happened to me, it would of been called rape and he would of been arrested immediately. Since it was a little five year old she didn't even know what the word mean't. The sickening things he did to her is unspeakable. And in her own words when asked how many times... it wasn't once or twice...but millions to her. I prayed to God that justice will prevail and he gets what he deserves. I know now that my job is done and it's in the hands of a judge to sentence this person and take the rest of his life away. He has damaged my baby girl for the rest of hers and once a week she is reminded when she goes to therapy. So when you say that law enforcement believes everything that the victims have to say. You are wrong. We feel like the criminals. Grandmother and her Grand daughter had to run 200 hundred miles away and she didn't even get her favorite doll Annabelle or her Pooh bear that she had slept with since she was a baby. They didn't even get their clothing and she lost all of her little playmates. Try explaining why to her. These perverts should not get a second chance.
Sad story. It is hard to believe with the stricter laws, that people still dare to act against children. You did well to push the way you did. (I say this as an ex-offender. ) Only when abuse gets into the "light", can it all be dealt with.
I was amazed to find that my childhood girlfreind and her three sisters were all molested by their grandfather. Back then, no one dared speak of being molested within the family. At least now, this issue is being discussed and dealt with by the law and on sites such as this.
Posted by matt (not registered) on May 02, 2007 08:20 AM
I almost was registered as a sex offender. When I was like 15 I went into a chatroom, since they were all the rage at that age. Started talking to a girl who was like 30 minutes from me or something like that. Basically when I was 20 in college we met. Great night, she slept over, but no sex happend. Just made out really, and ya by the way she said she was 19. Went to some college in ct, I checked it out, there was someone with her full name going there and she had friends iming me too. Well the next morning I get fbi at my door. Turns out she snuck out and is actually 15. By the way she really did look 19. Plus i talked to the girl for 5 years online. I was not arrested but they took my pc and for the next 4 months i received crap from my family and was not knowing if i was going to jail or not. I found out also that she pretended to be these other people online and she gave me a fake name. Even a cover story to why she had no car, she was in an accident and her license got suspended. I picked the girl up at her house. And this other time, I talked to this girl from Match.com, she gave me her number, called up mom said she was 15 and if I called again her husband who is a cop would come for me. IF you know what Match is, its an 18 and over dating site. I did not contact her again, infact i reported her to match. But tell me do you think I deserved to go to jail for 10 years and be a registered sex offender when the girl lied about her age.
HONESTLY, THE LAWS ARE NOT AS HARSH AS SOME THINK. I THINK THAT IS WHY THIS IS STILL GOING ON WITH OUR CHILDREN, THE STATE WOULD RATHER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE THEN TO DO THE RIGHT THING. IF YOU CLICK ON MY NAME YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHERE I AM FROM, AND WHY I AM ON THIS SIGHT. I CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS SAYING, I WILL BE IN THE SAME SITUATION, HOW CAN I EXPLAIN TO MY SON WHEN HIS PREDITOR IS OUT, WHAT TYPE OF EXAMPLE IS THAT SHOWING MY SON? MY SON WILL CARRY THIS THE REST OF HIS LIFE, AND YET HIS PREDITOR WILL GET A SECOND CHANCE, AND HE IS CON.... A 3RD FELONY OF SEXUAL MOLESTAION. MY SON WAS 9 WHEN IT HAPPENED, BUT HE WILL BE 16 WHEN HE IS OUT, OR A LITTLE YOUNGER IF HIS PREDITOR GETS OUT ON GOOD BEH.... WHAT IS GOOD ABOUT HURTING A CHILD? AND WHY GIVE HIM THAT CHANCE? SO MANY QUESTIONS, NO CORRECT ANSWERS, EXCEPT FROM ONES WHO FEEL THEY NEED A SECOND CHANCE. TAMMY (HEXGIRL)
I know it doesn't help to hear this at this time, but studies claim that children have a remarkable ability to "heal" with time. Not that they will ever forget. Life goes on. I don't oppose society revisiting this whole issue, but I do feel that we need to weed the most dangerous from those that just screwed up in life. Not to throw the baby out with the water. Your real scary time will be when the offender gets out of prison. Ten years does five, so to speak. I don't think he will bother your son, but he needs to be watched for a while to make sure he doesn't revert back to offending. A secure job and place to live, will be of help. We can yell all we want that people should be in prison for life, but it is not the way the world works. Therefore, we need to assure he does not reoffend. We need to be certain he gets treatment.
YOUR RIGHT IT IS NOT SOMETHING I AM READY YET TO HEAR, OR THINK I EVER WILL WANT TO HEAR. MY SON HAS BEEN IN THERPY SINCE THIS HAS HAPPENED, AND HE CAME OUT. I HOPE HE WILL BE FINE AS HE GROWS UP AND BECOMES A MAN, BUT TIME WILL ONLY TELL. AS FAR AS HIS PREDITOR, I FEEL HE SHOULD STAY IN PRISION, YES GET THERPY, BUT NOT MY TAX MONEY FOR HIS THERPY. BUT ALL THE HTERPY IN THE WORLD IN THIS SITUATION WILL NOT HELP THIS PREDITOR, I AM FIRM ON IF YOU HAVE SEXUAL WANTS, AND NEEDS, AND CERTAIN PREF.... YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE THAT THAT IS WHO YOU ARE. ESPECIALLY THIS PERSON. I KNOW WE ARE ALL INTITLED TO OUR THOUGHTS, BUT I STILL FEEL THEY SHOULD STAY BEHIND BARS, AND NOT GIVEN A SECOND CHANCE IN HOPES NOT TO MESS UP ANOTHER CHILDS LIFE. AND NOT THE ONES THAT ARE FALSELY ACCUSED EITHER. THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT. TAMMY (HEXGIRL)
Posted by ANONYMOUS (not registered) on May 08, 2007 11:00 PM
Being aware that this here is a very toughy subject, I will do my best not affend anyone and defend both reasons why I believe many should be severely punished and why others have been abused and misunderstood. I truy believe if a man or women be the offender in this case decide to talk to some one on line and decide to meet up, and there is that slight chance this other sex or even same sex looks like they can be under the age or maybe even maybe just meeting the ages appearence should be asked for an I.D. Yes im aware this sounds etreme but it would save plenty of trouble and jail time for those who have been lied to in the past. a buddie of mine decided to use the bathroom out in the open, behind a tree (trying to hide himself) well a child had seen him as well as a parent in the dark. he was convicted as a sex affender, now i dont believe that was fair. Maybe something more along the lines of indecent exposure would have been a sentence that fit his situation better. So I can understand why some may argue that this is an unfair issue at times. BUT THEN ON THE OTHER HAND, AND IN MANY CASES, THEIR ARE THOSE THAT ARE FULLY AWARE OF THE OTHERS AGE JUST ON THE OTHERSIDE OF THE SCREEN, AND IGNORE IT. THEY SAY THE OTHER WANTED THIS, REGARDLESS THIS OTHER IS STILL A CHILD IF UNDER THE AGE OF 18...So on those terms this prditor deserves to be behind bars. This also occurs all the time besides on the internet, children need to be watched more closely, phone calls, internet use, friends, and where abouts so things like this can be much less likely to occur.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on May 10, 2007 06:04 PM
Could someone tell me what the difference between child molestation and with taking indecent liberties with a child is? Which carries the most punishment? Thank You,
Go to your state's homepage and look for "statues" pages. Sometimes you can do a search on their pages. Look for statues regarding crimes, or sex crimes and you may also find definitions for what constitues the crime you wish to know. You might also just put the words in google.com search box and see what you find. Good luck.
Posted by TP (not registered) on May 22, 2007 11:02 PM
I HAVE READ THE POST WHO TRY TO RATIONALIZE THE MOLESTATION AND RAPE OF YOUNG PEOPLE BY BLAMING THEM FOR "LOOKING OLDER". "WEARING MAKE-UP AND PROVOCATIVE CLOTHING"
THESE PEOPLE ARE MOLESTORS WAITING TO HAPPEN. WHEN ARE PEOPLE GOING TO LEARN THAT NO MATTER WHAT, NOTHING EXCUSES CHILD MOLESTATION.
AND AS FAR AS THE POST THAT SOME IDIOT SAID THAT MOST VICTIMS RECOVER FROM THEIR TRAUMA IS HORSE MANURE.
EVIDENTLY THIS INDIVIDUAL HAS NEVER BEEN RAPED. HE HAS NEVER BEEN SUBJECTED TO THE HORRORS OF A FAMILY MEMBER/FAMILY FRIEND ACTUALLY INSERTING THEIR BODY PARTS INTO A SIX YEAR OLD, WHILE LISTENING TO THE SCREAMS OF TERROR AND CRIES FOR HELP. I WAS THAT SIX YEAR OLD GIRL AND AT THE RIPE OLD AGE OF 45 NOW, THE NIGHTMARES OF WHAT WAS DONE TO ME AT THE HANDS OF A "RESPECTABLE, GOOD, CHRISTIAN PERSON WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. YES, I HAVE A GOOD LIFE AND I FUNCTION AS A "NORMAL" PERSON, WHATEVER THAT MEANS, BUT MOLESTATION TRAUMA NEVER GOES AWAY. IT IS ALWAYS HIDING IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND. TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT ALL OF THESE GOOD CHRISTIAN MEN AND THEN PICTURE THE EVIL THAT HIDES JUST BELOW THE SURFACE. REMEMBER THE SAYING "MANS INHUMANITY TO MAN". I GUARD MY 7 YEAR OLD SON WITH ALL THE STRENGTH AND ABILITY THAT GOD GIVES ME. I TRUST NO ONE BEING ALONE WITH MY SON. I HAVE MADE HIM AWARE THE "BAD PEOPLE" DON'T LOOK BAD, THE USUALLY LOOK HANDSOME, VERY FRIENDLY, ALWAYS OFFERING TO HELP AND ALWAYS WILLING TO GO THAT EXTRA MILE FOR YOUR CHILD. EVIL COMES WRAPPED LIKE CANDY. MOTHERS, PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN.....THERE ARE MANY MANY "HONORABLE" MEN JUST WAITING TO DO THE WORST TO YOUR CHILD.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Jun 05, 2007 07:12 PM
i know things happen to kids. I know things happen to adults. Ive been there as a child. But i see young women.. 13 and up who look 19 20 years old. And see them dressed provocatively and then they wonder why a 19 or 20 year old man wants to sleep with them. My cousin, when told to stop, stopped. he touched the girl with his hand.. no denying when she said im only 14 stop he did. he did 2 years in prison. Too bad the girl was my cousin on the other side. i knew what kind girl she was. So i know everyone convicted isnt really after kids but at same time its a hard thing. I want to protect my girls too i have 2 girls, 2 stepdaughters and a son all under 13. But its also my resposiblity as an adult parent to make sure my children are not put into situations that are dangerous. Very hard topic.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Jun 10, 2007 01:13 PM
my ex husband molested our child when she was 4 or 5 years old. (right around her birthday) faced 20 years for 1st degree attempted statatory rape....plead guilty but child molester is NOT listed on his offender page. he got 6 years and only pulled 2 1/2 years. he is list with statatroy rape (attempted) and is now trying to get custody of our minor children since he has remarried and is expecting a child. drug dealers get more time for less...
Posted by chuck (not registered) on Jun 11, 2007 01:53 PM
I've been molested by my daughter's girl friends for years. I'm afraid to turn them in because I'm the one that will be in trouble. She just turned 16 last week and had 8 of the offenders at her party. They where all hanging on me all night and I'm sure my buldge was obvious to the other parents there. It all happened when she was 13 and had two of her friends over for a pajama party. I went to my room leaving them up watching tv in the family room. I was awakened in the middle of the night with a set of lip surrounding my enlarged penis and a shaved vagina in my face. I thought I was dreaming and before I knew it, I had had sex with all 3. This has continued to happen over the years with many of her friends, always while I'm sleeping and dreaming. I can't tell anyone because I would be in trouble. When she asks if she can have a sleep over, I have to say yes.
Posted by S.O (not registered) on Jun 12, 2007 12:48 PM
I am a registered sex offender and here is my story....not all sex offenders are bad people....i was 19 and dated a girl who was 15...she turned 16 4 months after we dated...we dated for over a year...after we had gotted really close she told me that her father was hitting her and her little sister...so we both went to DSS and reported this. 2 months later after heated arguements with her parents they showed the cops a letter she had written back when she was 15 about a sexual encounter. then I was charges 2 counts stat rape...year later dropped to 1 count indecent liberties with a minor...she is still very in love with me and tries to contact me..but under my probation cant talk to her for 2 years....i know people in therapy where they make me go for my probation...there are some good guys...and there are sick mofos also....but just because people are S.O..sometimes you need to read the fine print...i got to suffer for the next 10 years because of her parents fear of getting locked up..i was hung out to dry!! that is my SEX OFFENSE....i have no victim...just someone whom i loved and loved me dearly in return
I would not con. you a offender, I think the State is paying to much atten... to the teenagers who know what the heck they are doing then the young children who do not have a clue, and our messed up from being abused honestly. I know you now have a lable but so should she, and how the judge could not see through that, sickens me. People like yourself pay when not need be, and preditors who really do damage get off easyer then the ones who are labled that should not be. Tammy (Hexgirl)
After a year of treatment. I saw the same things you just described. Some of the guys in that room really needed help, other after talking and getting to the situation have no business being in there. You only got 10yrs bro your lucky. I got 25yrs. But either way it still sucks.
S.O. has a point to be honest. I have to say I agree with him. The State, and always un-answered questions towards why call a person a offender when both parties are o.k. with the sex together except the parents, that is not molestation, or rape, its normal for some teenagers to exp. that, what is not normal is for Adults to have sex with young children who can not say no, and are told to keep quiet. The State needs to figure out what a true Offender means, and not a falsely accused one at that. Those should not be lables, and are not a threat to our society, but the ones they are not harsh enough on are, and those are the ones that are not taking harsher on by the State, and they wounder why this keeps hapening, over, and over again? Tammy (Hexgirl)
I would also like to add the State needs to come up with an age when your a teenager so not everyone whom has sexs, and the parents get madd can be called a offender. I would not want to be in a mans place honestly as well, I have seen so many girls who are 25, or older looking, and they are 16, and 17 years old. The way they dress and look scears me, but does the judge take that into cond... as the fact that I know some will lye about their age to this poor guys, It is like you want to I.D. these girls now a days. TAmmy (Hexgirl)
A South Brunswick High School coach married one of his young athletes.
Can you imagine the thousands of men who are in jail now for being overage adn having sex with a female minor? Something is wrong with this picture.
Posted by Upset Mom (not registered) on Jun 25, 2007 03:21 PM
I am a mother of three. I am angry and hurt that someone could do these things to a child. I will kill anyone who has thoughts, let alone perform any acts on my children. They should be hung from their balls and left to rot.
That is my point, she is under age I agree, he is a adult who should not even think of being with a 16 year old in a normal mind, but thats not the case in this story, as well as others. We know she was willing, as for him, for them to be able to be married the parents had to sign I would think agreeing to the marriage, therefore no matter what we think or feel, the state should back out, no matter how werd this is, tha is why I think there should be a age where the State has to say look yes means that they know as well as no means no and they know that as well. And really look into the ages where children do not understand that, or adults being raped from these sickos. Tammy (Hexgirl)
make you safe? Most offense is within the family or by someone
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jul 26, 2007 02:23 PM
I believe any one convicted of a sexual offense should be tagged with a gps ankle bracelet. There should be a free tracking system that allows parents to view the current location of all offenders via a website. You should be able to use a wireless pda to monitor their loations and be aware at all times how close they are to your children. If their device stops fuctioning, they would have 15 minutes to call and report it, or the police should be dispatched to their locations. These people should have no civil liberties after being convicted of a violent offense.
Posted by needs help (not registered) on Aug 11, 2007 04:22 PM
Your web site For sex offenders for NC is useless!!!!!!!!
Another thing that you could do is go to your local Police Dept..., or Town Hall, Etc... And see if they have any papers with pictures of all the Sexual Offenders, and Preditors in your area. Alot of them carry that for the people to have. Tammy (HexGirl)
Posted by fedup (not registered) on Aug 14, 2007 01:50 PM
I'm so tired of hearing how everything is being done to protect our children! I have been on both sides of the coin.I was a molested as a child and have had a sicko touching my nine year old little girl a few years back! I also recently reported an incident involving my teenage son and his hero! It seems the perv is bisexual and likes teenage boys! I've done what the law tells me to do! I reported both incidents! I was told by the law with the first incident" It's her word against his!" A nine year old girl isn't believed in our courts apparently! I was also told" It was only touching! If he had penetrated her we'd have physical proof!" Thank God he didn't! I recorded the perv on the phone with my teenage son! I had proof...maybe not admissable in court but they'd have to believe us! They believed alright.....I can't get a single damn person to give me any answers! "Call me back if you don't hear from me next week!"they tell me!
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 15, 2007 02:56 PM
I think Hexgirl needs to get a job and a life and get off welfare
Hexgirl has the right to give her ideas and opinion on this site. Although I do not always agree with her point of view, she has lots to offer all of us (IMO) If I understand this site, it is a place to discuss these issues and learn what we can from it. It is so important to get rid of the ignorance surrounding this topic. Thanks to all who participate.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 16, 2007 07:17 PM
I am amazed at how many sex offenders actually live right near schools. I thought that they were suppose to stay away from schools. I noticed that two different offenders are near elementary schools. What's up with that? I am glad there is a website like this. I am about to move and I have three boys and I just noticed that there is one of them near my new house. I will make sure that they are familiar with this man's picture so they can be on the know.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Aug 17, 2007 08:37 PM
i cant read this and not cry. u wouldnt realize how much this stuff happens. it happened to me when i was 5 and i am still so pist!
Posted by Tears that want go away (not registered) on Aug 23, 2007 05:30 AM
I am a woman now but when i was 11 to age 13 i was raped I still live with it to this day i was scared to tell anyone what had happen to me i felt nasty i felt like it was my fault that i had let it happen i got brave one day and i told my mom and my sister found out after that my mom question the man well he said i was lieing about it my mom and sister beleaved him till we got in court and he pleaded a lesser charge the bad thing out of everything that happen to me was my Mom Sister did not beleave me i cant never forget that and how bad it hurt the best thing is to do is tell anyone you can dont keep it inside it will keep on and on i am 33 and i still am not over the nightmare i got a life sent he didnt more less they just smacked him on the hand and let him go I hope if this is happening to you please tell someone or if you know this is going on with someone be a friend get them help thanks
Posted by Tiffany (not registered) on Aug 24, 2007 04:01 PM
I was molested from age 5 to 10 by my neighbor, at age 10 a boy 4years older than me molested me, and then my stepfather did because my mom wouldn't have sex with him. 3 years later, trying to have a relationship with a mother never there for me, I was visiting her, and he raped me two nights in a row. My mother knew after the first night, and didn't do anything until after the 2nd night, and my baby brother was there in the bed with me both times as we had to share since I was only visiting. The cops aren't there for the women, they wouldn't even press charges on him, he was retired coast gaurd and good at making people believe him so I was the one that got screwed. I would rather see 5 innocent men go to jail than one guilty one go free. Sometimes for the greater good of society sacrifices have to be made. If you haven't been raped or molested, you have NO right to comment on it, you have NO clue. I have two boys now, and had the hardest time bathing them as babies, it felt WRONG for me to do what a mother is supposed to do, and even now, I have difficulty when they want to play and run around after their shower being silly little boys. NO ONE KNOWS what it is like, until they have been there. I hope, and I don't pray often, but I pray, NO ONE has to go through this. At age 18 I still had to put up with my stepfather sexually assaulting me, but what was I suppose to do? The law already said it was okay. DONT ever say that it is set for women, because it's not!!!!!
Tiffany: what your stepfather did was wrong. There are tests the police could do to prove you were molested. Many victims somehow think it is their fault. You need to see a shrink to get the terrible abuse done to you in perspective. A child is not a sexual partner for an adult! The shame here is that this stepfather has not been caught and when you become older, he will most likely seek another victim. Try to seek help with this from a local agency and I wish you well.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 01, 2007 06:29 PM
I would like to say that the registry is a great thing. I am a registered sex offender, and I was also a victim by my father and grandfather, but I never told anyone until years later. If I had gotten help when I was younger I would have been different. I offended when I was 16 years old and was incarcerated for 7 years. I am glad that I was because I finally got the help that was long overdue. My biological father is still in prison for my sister also and to this day I still will not claim him. Not every offender is the same, I asked for help and I got it, I am 32 years old now, happily married with three great children that mean the world to me. As any other parent I am very cautious about what kind of people are around my kids and I try to watch them in public the best that I can. So yes I think that the registry is great.
Sounds like you have it together...I am curious: So why is the registry great? How is it helping you to know your neighbor was a sex offender 25 years ago? It appears YOU have taken the responsibility for your family and that the registry has changed nothing in that sense. It is important that the police know where the offenders are, but how does putting faces on the website protect your children? It is really YOUR lessons and wisdom , that protects your children, isnt it?
Posted by no name (not registered) on Sep 03, 2007 04:08 AM
I am the mother of a 19 yr old son only to find out this year that my son was molested by a man I thought I could trust..This man molested him when he was eleven years old..This man also stole my Identity falsified documents and forged my name ruined my credit and left us when my credit ran out..I had to file chapter seven...this is to the clerk of wentworth courthose in nc..if you have any outstanding warrannts on Harrold Ferris Jr....Alias Chad Ferris ,alias,Thad Ferris,...or he also masquerades as his father Harrold Ferris... he is manager at the starmax,bowling alley in gaffney,sc..and as far as I'm concerned he is a danger to any child that comes into contact with him...
Hey "no name": You may want to ask someone what the statute of limitations is down there for such a crime. In some states, they have changed the statute so that people can still be caught for sexual offense if your son complains to authorities.
Posted by Jennifer (not registered) on Sep 09, 2007 09:10 AM
I think it's great that this website gives us some insight as to what these offenders look like and where they last lived, but have you noticed that half of the addresses given have not been confirmed. I saw some in my area who have recently gotten out of prison after 20-25 years for serious offenses who don't have an address listed! That is a frightening thought.
Posted by Jenn (not registered) on Sep 13, 2007 01:38 PM
So I'm very disappointed by NC laws on sexual abuse crimes and the punishments that go along with it. 14yr old boy rapes 8yr old cousin and after pleading guilty only gets probation and that was never pushed, he was out quite a bit past curfew to go to church where he hung out with and knocked up some girl from there....HOW is it at 14 they assume because legaly he is still a child that he did not know what he was doing? He very much understood because he denied it till the results came back from the health people. Yet he was also allowed back into public school where he was later expeled and is out there somewhere doing god knows what to other young girls now. He never did have to register and it was put in his juv. records so it will not show on regular background checks. I just don't get how NC can support something like this.
Posted by concerned mother (not registered) on Sep 15, 2007 08:48 PM
I am so thankful that these people who steal the innocense of our children are displayed so that others can know who they are and protect themselves and their children from degenerates who prey on young lives. If we know who to look for then we stand a better chance of preventing future attacks from these sick minded freaks who destroy lives. A public display of these so called people will make it harder for them to do it again. Even the elderly men displayed just goes to show you that no matter how harmless someone looks, they can still be very dangerous. As for the comment someone posted about young girls who lie about their age, yes, this happens, but how about asking questions, verify the age of the person you are with. It is stupidity on your part for not doing so in order to protect yourself, so if that is really the case, maybe a few questions to the right people and maybe proof of I D would prevent this as well. This web site is great for parents concerned about their childs welfare.
Posted by PAK (not registered) on Sep 16, 2007 03:23 PM
I live in Arizona but I no longer share all of the nastyness that a lot of people share. I was molested by two 1/2 brothers and my dad, and it took me a long time to get over it all, but I now know that if I don't forgive them I am no better then they are and I will not make Heaven My Home. I am now Married to a Registered Sex Offender and I look beyond his faults and I Love Him With All Of My Heart and Always Will. He went to prison for 7 yrs. and 7 weeks and I do believe he learned his lesson. I trust in Jesus that he makes everyone and everything well. We have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. and have been married for 2 yrs. 8 months. My Husband is my everything and a light in the life. If you have a problem with these kind of people just keep an eye on them and trust Jesus will protect you from them. Now I'm not saying that if I saw something going on that I wouldn't try to stop it or not report it because I would, but I don't believe they should be casterated or put away for life, if they have served their time they should be able to live in the world like the rest of us without being harrased. I wouldn't trade my life for anything, it has made me who I am today.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 23, 2007 06:21 PM
Someone who is a rapist or child molester is just that...there is no classification system, there is no getting off. I've been molested. I've been raped. Until those who defend sex offenders walk a mile in my shoes, they shouldn't do it. I too, am forced to live with it for the rest of my life. Pity the poor rapists life who was ruined...forget the victim!
Posted by sad girl (not registered) on Sep 24, 2007 10:24 PM
I was molested as a child but i never told mt family because it was my cousin. Later he molested my autistic cousin and by then I knew it was wrong but I guess I didn't want people to look at me like there she is the vitim I just wanted to be me.
Posted by ashley (not registered) on Oct 20, 2007 05:57 PM
I am a victim of molestation and my father was convicted of it. So i have experienced both sides of it. I truely belive these people are sick in the brain, and if there are 14 yr old beggin for the sex, its not sex they want its male attention. So dont call these innocent girls hoes b/c im sure deep down they dont want to be and by someone calling them that they are living up to what everyone else is saying they are. all they want is positive male attention. as for the molesters. I feel there is no rehabilitaion for them and that they should not only have to register but be required to seek psychiatric counseling for the rest of thier lives. They do not change ...they only hide!!! so beware, and less judgemental of the little girls. b/c those who are judging are only telling those girls what they tell themselves, its my fault...and its not...its their mom and dads faoult, no supervision and not enough attention. thanks.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Nov 12, 2007 01:27 PM
JUST WANTED TO SAY ALL OF YOU REGISTERED SICK PERVS ARE SICK AND I CANT BELIEVE WOMEN ARE HAVING BABIES WITH YOU!!!
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Nov 21, 2007 05:50 PM
Before people start judging they need to know the whole story. I know someone who was falsely accussed by an ex wife's family. Now his whole life is in shambles. He's living hell on earth.
Posted by bryan (not registered) on Nov 23, 2007 12:17 PM
FOR THE ONES WHO ARE SEX OFFENDERS - THEY HAVE ALLREADY DONE THERE TIME AND MOVED ON. IM SURE THE MAJORITY ARE SORRY . LIKE MYSELF AND , INSTEAD OF PUNISHING US EVERY DAY FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES. JUST LET US BE. LIFE CHANGES SOMETIMES FOR THE BETTER.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Dec 24, 2007 04:21 PM
This is an excellent resource and I would encourage the general public to use it. On the other hand I would caution everyone not to totally rely on this resource as there are many predators who have been committing crimes for years that were either never reported or they have eluded the legal system. Adults should always use good judgement in and outside your home to protect self and loved ones.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jan 06, 2008 02:35 AM
My best friend was abused sexually by his mother when he was 12. He's older now but needs help, and I don't know how to help him. Does anyone know of a website or something where we can get help. Also, his mother has never been charged for the crime. Someone please help.
check with your state representative to see if they have a victims of rape counselling service or agency that will offer free help and/or ideas. Also, you might wish to talk to your state human services about the situation, eventhough it was a long time ago. This woman should not be with grandchildren or babysitting other males she might sexually offend. (IMO)
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jan 15, 2008 10:39 PM
My husband and I were getting ready to have our first baby and were getting ready to buy a new house in what was to be a great neighborhood. The night before signing the offer we went to this site and not only found out our "new" next door neighbor was a child sex offender. We also were able to research his name and found out he'd just been in the newspapers again for lying about his current address and whereabouts. Needless to say we did not buy that house. Thank you for this site!
It's good that you were able to get the info... before you bought your house, that way you were aware of your surroundings. Esp... knowing this guy was lying about his address'e, and all, pretty sick. But at least he got caught doing that, and surpriseing, normaly these types of things can go left un detected for a long time, if not ever. But also keep in mind not everyone on the reg.. is a offender, due too the way the State lables them for having hormones at a teenage age, then getting caught for it. HEX
Question? duh? i am surprised at you, I figured you would understand why she and her husband did that, it's normal for people to check into things of this nature that have children, even though you have to worry about others hurting your children as well, like friends, family members, etc... as well as (True) offenders, and Preditors, that might re-offend again. Therpy doe not work for everyone, look at this person, giving a false address, ect... that is a sign he may re-offend again, due to the fact he is not being honest about his stay, and information to the police etc.. he/she desearved to get into truble. Hex
Hex: We agree that if someone is being deceptive and not registering, they are most likely very dangerous. I guess what I was objecting to, is how people are so proud they know where offenders live that they don't realize where they just moved may have an offender UNregistered next door. That is the problem: The registry gives a false sense of security...get me?
I agree with that, but honestly people who thrive off of that are sick as well, like I have stated before not everyone on the reg... is an offender, or preditor. So people don't need to be like I used too be,a judge them all as one. HEX
Posted by Amanda (not registered) on Jan 19, 2008 03:26 AM
For those of you who think that when a female says she is rape and she is immediately believed....this is not true. I was a victim of rape and I went to the cops on the dot. They said that it didn't count as rape because of lack of evidence. Essentially telling me that they didn't believe me just from talking to the other guy about it and what appeared to be no evidence. They never bothered to contact me again about it and even when I tried to contact them they acted like as if they didn't even care. Then I decided that i needed to move on with my life and not go through so much pressure before i went off to school. I've never felt so defeated in my life.
Posted by brittany (not registered) on Feb 11, 2008 04:45 AM
Our justice system is so screwed up. A girl has sex with a man, lies bout her age, her parents find out, hes goin to prison a long time an not only that hes now a registered sex offender!!!
Posted by cm (not registered) on Feb 11, 2008 01:33 PM
It still sounds like we have a lot of he said, she said going on. One point
that needs to be made - if a girl says no it should mean no. Not maybe -
not that maybe I can talk you into it. If the guys would just take the NO
and walk away - problem solved. Most guys will try to find a way. another
drink, more time, a bit more smoozing, just walk away. Women today and
even girls will say yes when they mean yes.
Posted by Live in Maryland (not registered) on Feb 16, 2008 09:41 AM
As I read over all this bull it just blows my mind how many stupid comments come out ouf peoples mouths. The one of she told me she was 18, give me a break, did you ask to see her id ? If she doesnt have one keep it in your pants.
Other comments on I know he didnt do it he is a good family man that goes to church. Do you spend every second of every day with this person to know everything he does, they will make fools out of you.
The last thing I have to say is when you talk about the way these teen dress and act they are asking for it, bull, they are still children the adult should be responsible for their conduct, the adult should be the mature one that has enough since to walk away.
God help our children .
Posted by Consened (not registered) on Feb 23, 2008 04:47 PM
Its funny How people judge other indiviuals that have made bad choices in their lives. But who are u to judge anyone,because no matter what people say,Ever person can change their life around its called repenting for your sins. Not only that some of the sex offenders that are mark for the rest of their life for whatever the sexual crime was for doesnt mean that the justice system dosent make mistakes. I have a Friend that was commited a crime at the age of 12, he had sex with a girl that was 10. the little girl admitted that they had sex and it wasn't by force and her parents didnt press charges well when he turned 16 he got papers in the mail about that.and the state pressed charges and since he has been lab as a sex offender. but when people dont know the story and hear oh such and such is a sex offender people atomaticlly think that they are such a bad person. But in this case my friend will be mark for the rest of his life about something that happen when he was 12. all because a girl was hot and said she was 11, and the bad part about she amitted that it was consentual and he still gets mark. so dont just judge people for that title get the details and then judge it from there becuase like i said at the beginnig everyone can change and everyone is not guilty because they were covicted because we all know the justice system have had its flaws and it still doses.
Posted by christine carpenter (not registered) on Feb 23, 2008 05:11 PM
what is ths defination of statue 24-27-4 sentence for a child molester
Posted by Wondering (not registered) on Feb 26, 2008 09:28 PM
When I was 15, I had a boyfriend who was 19. Seemed normal to me. Now to get older and realize HE could be a registered sex offender now WITHOUT ever having actual intercourse with me. One of my friends just got CONVICTED and LISTED behind switching phone numbers with a run-away who's rap sheet is longer that anyone I know. His name was found in a notebook that her father found when she went missing ensuing the father's accusations. When the girl returned, even though it was obvious she wasn't with him, she offered NO COMMENT. Under NC law, a person can be charged with INDECENT LIBERTIES with a minor if there is a THREE year or more gap and INTENT was involved! This is one of those loopholes when it depends on the person and the case, where a lot of people are getting punished because the law says they MIGHT HAVE done something! I think predators, violent crimes, and pedos should be punished severely, but does anybody think of guys around my age who are not TECHNICALLY guilty of anything when they say "kill" and "castrate" them? It hurts to hear these things being said when they are dealing with a bull technicality charge. But the ignorance is too vast until the people who are posting these comments get charged with something like this.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 05, 2008 01:27 PM
i am a victim of sexual abuse from my own brother and because he was 17 and i was 8 he was protected under the law as juvie and that was BS becuase he later became police officer in kernersville nc but it did not last long, thank god after so many years of the abuse i did get some justice, a child is a child and an adult should know better or suffer the way we as children have to the rest of our lives.......
Posted by johns sister (not registered) on Mar 05, 2008 01:38 PM
every sex offender or child abuser should have to permently tatooed right across their forhead for life, and john this also means you ...... poly graph all i ask
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 05, 2008 08:59 PM
I am a so called sex-offender, just did 6yrs. 1 month in prison. It was about a party happened in 1999. My co-defendant had sex with the minor and i skinny dipped in the pool with them. I did more time than should was scared told i would get life if I didn't sign a plea bargin and i did. I was a newly wed with a 14 month old son i had to leave, over a stupid wild drunkin party i attended that ruined my life. I been blessed my husband has stood by me through all this and my son is now 7 yrs. old. He is getting smart wondering why "MOMMY " can't live at home just supervised visites. I would never ever hurt my own child or anyones elses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are a hurting family paying 2 rents for 2 homes about to loose everything can't afford it.. Have to pay outragous daycare bills cause i can't pick him up. This puts so much stress on my husband and our marriage. We can live together if we can find a lawyer in jurisdiction to let us , haven't had the $$, if any one can help us in wilmington n.c. The crime happened in Greensboro n.c. A Hurting Family that needs support , information guidance and a CHANCE TO LIVE!!!
P.S Thanks for having a place for the the other side of the fence to voice there opitions also.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 06, 2008 10:33 PM
well mamm you should have thought about your consequences before you acted like a darned fool. apparently the court system found you guilty, and I'd believe them over the defendent (you) any day. I'm sorry but it is truly right that all sex offenders (this apparently includes you) should be locked up for good and have the key thrown away. thats just my opinion, and I bet a lot of people agree with me.
PS. if you were so drunk to jump in the pool, how do you know you didnt commit the crime, the truth is you dont, and you have no proof. If you'd been doing something better or limiting yourself you wouldnt be in this situation. I feel bad for your daughter.
It does my heart good, to know that you have never made any mistakes in life. This woman goofed up her life and needs to be allowed to start over. She did her time for her crime so don't judge her less harshy than you judge yourself (IMO)
Posted by moving (not registered) on Mar 20, 2008 11:44 AM
My family is relocating to NC. I have never visited or lived in the state. We will be moving to the Raleigh area. I am researching this because I am a woman for one, but more importantly because I have a child. I am moving from florida. The NC site seems poorly organized in comparison to the one we have here in florida. The pictures aren't clear, in florida they use official DMV or booking photos. The listings are difficult to look at because they are all jumbled on the map. I must say I am disappointed. Is this the official site. For instance in florida ours is run by the FDLE (florida department of Law Enforcement) is this the same kind of thing? I really want to research these things before our move, when deciding our location. Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated.
Posted by Justiceforall (not registered) on Mar 26, 2008 02:55 PM
Look here. Everyone makes mistakes. Its funny how a man can have sex with another man, but a senior in high school can not have consenting sex with a teacher! Our laws are screwed up and We were all teenagers at on point. SO all you people who judge must wear halos over your heads right? Its not like she raped a child, just skinny dipped. ANd what the hell was that minor doing at an adult party anyway? I hate hearing stories of slutty teenage girls trying to entice adults for sex and then the adults get in trouble. Oh, I see the next time any woman wants to go to bed with me, I will ask her for her driver's license! WHat a bunch of ill judging pigs. Please for those who judge with no ration..... DO NOT SEEK ELECTIONS!
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 03, 2008 12:23 PM
I am a mother of two small children and i just bought a house. Didnt think to look in about the sex offenders. So today my sister in law pulled up my new address and there is a sex offender that lives right behind me. So what am i suppose to do just forget about it "i dont think so " i am very scared to even let my 3 and1 year old out side even with me out there. I think the sex offenders should be put in jail for life. I mean ever body has children what if it happen to them. I think that the law should do more to them than just putting them on the computer i'm glad they are but the can do it again. And the ones that has done it more than once come on now what the hell. So I guess us parents just keep and eye out and if something like this happens we take it in our own hands
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 04, 2008 09:32 AM
Mother of 2 I think your jumping the gun a bit here. You only know he has to reg as a sex offender not the crime. Yes my fiance has to register to but we have a 10 month old and he has a 10 and 12 year old from a previous marriage. He made a mistake when he was younger and a girl lied about her age. He never raped anyone nor does he lust after children. You need to find out more about it before you judge someone. I to as a parent would worry but would find more out about it.
Mother of Two: You need to find something to keep you busy. Your neighbor was there BEFORE you. The registry is a hassle put on offenders so that YOU can look up this information BEFORE you buy. What makes you think the offender is even interested in your kids? Maybe he is on the list for rape of an adult! whoa. Stop worrying and educate yourself and your children. In my opinion, you are way over reacting.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 07, 2008 11:01 AM
I FOUND OUT MY DAD WAS A SEX OFFENDER ABOUT A YEAR AGO AND FREAKED OUT, I WAS ON THE PHONE WITH MY FRIEND AND WAS WATCHING DR, PHIL AND SEX OFFENDERS WAS THE TOPIC , DECIDED TO GO TO THE WEBSITE THEY PROVIDED AND FOUND MY DAD ON THEIR AFTER I MAPPED MY HOUSE. I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO, MY FRIEND TOLD ME TO CALL MY MOM AND I DID I REALLY DONT REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED OR WHAT WAS SAID BUT I THINK SHE DIDNT BELIEVE ME. NOW I COME ON HERE AND FIND IT AGAIN THOSE FEELINGS ARE RUSHING BACK FROM A YEAR AGO!! I DONT WHAT TO DO I JUST PRINTED OF THE INFORMATION BUT DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT. I CANT BELIEVE THIS.
Posted by wondering (not registered) on Apr 08, 2008 10:57 AM
Is it true that in NC if you admit to the charges (sexual abuse) that your name does not go on the registry and you can go home and be with your family, but if you deny the charges then you have to go through the court system and can not see your family?
to anon apr.7: Have you considered that your parents don't want to discuss the past behavior of your dad? The only thing you have to be concerned with is HOW IS HE TREATING YOU? If you are "untouched", then not to worry. If he is wrongly touching you, speak to your guidance counsellor. He/she should get you help. Most adults are guilty of something in their lives...most deny it. No one in this world is perfect...no one! Good luck with this.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 09, 2008 08:42 PM
I got a question are all the states sexual predator websites connected to one main database??
Posted by Mister Bumby (not registered) on Apr 16, 2008 02:07 PM
I know a man who raped his 3 year old boy and got away with it. I want to bring him to justice. This man also convinced a man that he was innocent and the man left him a million dollar estate. And could have murdered the man. If anybody can offer some help, it would be appreciated.
Posted by jjj g jet work (not registered) on Apr 17, 2008 02:49 PM
I THINK THAT EVEN IF SOMEONE IS UNDER THE AGE OF 18 AND HAS SEX WITH SOMEONE OVER THE AGE OF 18 IF THEY BOHT WONT'ED TYO HAVE SEX THEN THE STATE SHOULD HAVE NO SAY SO IF THERE PARNETS DO NOT PRESS CHARGGES
See if this will link you to the national registry
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on May 08, 2008 10:48 AM
a know a very honest, caring, good man whose life is ruined forever because he drank too much one night and bit my grandson on the rearend. my grandson got scared and ran to his mom who was also drinking and over reacted and called the police. the police then proceeded to put my grandson through so much humiliation and interrogation that he hates all police now and says he would never tell them anything ever again. he forgives the man who scared him...but now that man's life is a misery. can't get a job, can't travel, can't see his own grandson, can't stay out past 10 p.m., can't find a place to live. we have all written letters and done out best to change things, but to no avail. not all people who mess up are child molesters, and sexual predators.. nor are they child killers. this has all gotten extremely out of hand, it is to the point that if even an elementary school child touches another child by hugging or a kiss on the cheek, that child can be hauled off to jail and be accused of being a sexual deviant. what has happened to us? where will this end? the system is where to sickness lies...i don't know what to do myself cause i have tried. we need good lawyers to help the wrongfully labeled people so they can return to society and lead the productive lives they were living before they were tossed away.
Posted by You Worst Nightmare. (not registered) on May 18, 2008 09:16 AM
I posted a comment nearly two years ago and tomorrrow is my day in court. This has been the hardest thing to get this man arrested here in NC because lack of physical evidence, but with 3 yrs of abuse i finally did get him. I have to plea before the judge tomorrow to take this man off the streets,May 19th 10am. How I have waited for this day. He molested starting age of 3 a little baby girl. At the age of 5 1/2 she told me. The horrible things this man done is unspeakable. How these perverts can think they have the right to breathe the same air as we do is beyond me. They should line up each one of u sickos out there and blow ur heads off. I will not go into detail here about what he did to her because i know YOU are out there reading these msgs and you are loving it. Stop preying on out children and the law needs to be changed that You touch our babies and we have the right to bear arms and Use them. You understand what I am saying here. I hope each and everyone of you that has molested a child burns in hell... If us mothers do not get you, then i pray that God will. Mothers and fathers out there, when a man or woman sexually abuses your child then his living in hell should start the day you find out. Trust me this man has not had a nights sleep without me in his head. I told him I will be your worst nightmare and this has held true. I posted flares where we lived of his actions. I will tell the whole world of this man, anyone that will listen. I had to write the governor, mayor and anyone that would listen to me. It was the hardest thing to do. She had to go to doctors for physical and mental etc.. I heard her cries and I left no stone unturned to get him arrested. Now I hope to hear his cries.. If anyone out there suspects someone is a child molester, watch him and stop him. If someone had of stopped this man he would of never gotten to this little girl. There are signs and I hope and pray that you do not learn of these after the fact...continue after trial date.
Posted by annonymouse (not registered) on May 25, 2008 03:30 AM
In NC, a convicted sex offender is not allowed to have access to children (whether they violated an adult or child) until they have completed a sex offenders evaluation that resulted in no recommendations, or until they successfully complete sex offenders therapy. This is the law. You should make a report to DSS if you know a child in this situation. I know the law rules, but it seems that it would be much cheaper on everyone if the government would allow citizens to donate bullets for extermination upon conviction. I would be glad to donate 10 boxes!!
Posted by your worst nightmare (not registered) on May 29, 2008 08:19 AM
well i had my day, and i am happy to say this person was convicted. He could of had more charges if the detectives had of done their job but i did mine and they got him.. He is now being sent to where he has 500 boyfriends and will stay no more than 17 months no less than 14 months. He will be satellite monitored for the rest of his life and he will have to register as a sex offender. There is a god because my prayers were answered and now i can stop blaming myself thinking i should of known. I seen the signs but as we all know these men are very smart and can make you think you are stupid. Please if you feel something is not right there is a good chance its not right. Too much love can be dangerous. My last comment and good luck to all those out there that are fighting as i have did...
Posted by Donna.. (not registered) on May 29, 2008 08:23 AM
My first comment was posted April 7th 2007 and It was posted as Donna and just posted two more and they are listed as your worst nightmare. It's a happy ending...
Posted by yeah right (not registered) on May 30, 2008 03:18 AM
To the person that says "he's a good guy now" ok.. That's great that he turned his life around. "WHO DOES THE CHILD SEE TO GET THEIR LIFE BACK????" Just wondering.
Posted by snake (not registered) on Jun 03, 2008 11:19 PM
I agree with samantha...nip the evil in the bud..no more ****...no more lewd acts..break the buggers knees as well..they should never be able to support themselves no more....lest they even thik about something else
Victims with so much rage, hopefully, will some day realize that a visit to a therapist might be helpful in dealing with their own past sexual experiences. IMO
Posted by Doesiitmatter (not registered) on Jul 29, 2008 11:12 PM
I have paid my debt yet the laws are changing every 6 months to a year. Last time I registered the policeman was nice enough to tell me that I had to have my license updated. I did immediately. Nobody can punish me more than I punish myself. I have no victims, no touching no meetings, nothing, internet crime is what I tell people. In CA it is a misdemeanor (the principle in "Ferris Buelers Day Off" was arrested for the same thing. I was not held to moving outside of a school area, was not prevented from being on the computer nothing other than ignorance is what I have to deal with. reading some of these comments just shows how much more ingnorance is out there than I thought. I am not a hypocrit about my offense nor do I blame it on anybody else but myself. I am ashamed and I was the one that told my children the minute I could (the day after my arrest). That was over 10 years ago, I would be more than willing to move to another country but that still wouldn't be good enough for most people. I have written to congressmen and women as well as senators requesting an island if that would satisfy the fear that is so present. If anybody hasn't noticed, the reason we do everything is for the children, yet we teach our own children nothing about work ethics or right from wrong. Our government has spent so much money that our children will probably be around to see the collapse of the United States. Maybe we could blame that on Sex Offenders and we could treat them like the Jewish people in Nazi Germany. Shame on me, but shame on all of you to make a stereotype and generalize people in to one group. How nice it must be to live in a black and white world without and gray areas!
Posted by JW (not registered) on Aug 01, 2008 02:22 PM
Very helpful for community watch. Most redo other crimes.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 10, 2008 04:31 PM
My husband was accused of raping a 13 yr old girl in N.C. in 1988 and actually she was having sex with her boyfriend and did not want her mother to find out so he never had to register all those yrs until we moved to California 2 yrs ago and he was sought out and had to go in and register for something he did not do.....we do not have the funds to pay a lawyer and have lost our home due to this......I hate sex offenders but why should innocent men be punished?
Posted by God (not registered) on Aug 19, 2008 03:54 PM
GET OVER IT I GOT MOLESTED BEAT HIM UP GOT DRUNK DONE
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Aug 22, 2008 10:51 AM
I think the men who molest children should be castrated so that all sexual urges leave them. Jail or prison does not solve the problem and it shows by the numerous repeat offenders in this country! They are sick people who RUIN innocent lives and life is hard enough without something else to add to the mix!
while we are at it, lets stitch up the mouths of bigots and alcoholics so they cant drink. Lets cut off the hands of thieves. Lets kill those who murder. Give me a break. There must be another solution, eh?
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 24, 2008 04:39 PM
I am the grandmother of a beautiful 6 year old granddaughter. She visited children's Hospital three times telling in detail of different acts of molestation her father did to her at different times and where it happened. Our local prosecutor in Southern Indiana doesnt believe "the story" even though Childrens Hospital forensic therapists testified that her story was true he will not do anything. And because of family connections within the legal system the father got FULL CUSTODY of her. She was molested starting at 3 years old and now is on her own to protect herself the best way she can. Our prosecutor stands in front of organizations and preaches how he works for the best interest of the children. Our local Division of Family and Children told us that until she was brutaly raped there was nothing they could do. The laws are for the criminals and the children if not strong enough or that have no support system become mental health statistics. We need a national day or maybe a month of prayer and if we all come together agreeing in prayer that God will handle this we could see miracles happen. This song and dance of having April as sexual awareness month makes me sick at my stomach. In my county of south eastern Indiana that is such a joke when they fly an actual banner across our streets proclaiming that. The local officials and Judges are the ones that are letting us all down. If it happened to their children or grandchildren that person would get the death penalty but the rest of our children and I quote from our local Division of Family and Children's Attorney...."Need to learn to cope with it like the other kids do!" I totally disagree and pray for those that will be judged by God.
grannie: I find it difficult to believe this incest slipped through the authorities. Something was not there to make a case...something. The cops etc. are pretty good at this in my opinion. You need to speak to these people one on one to find out what was missing to make a case. ?family connections?? maybe that is it.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 25, 2008 07:23 PM
Did you know that if you haven't gone to prison....but you molested a child, but didn't go to prison, and you move from Florida to North Carolina you don't have to register. I know this, becuase the man that molested me moved form Florida to North Carloina and somehow bypassed the system and is now just living a normal life, with children all around, and nobody knows who or what he has done. I tried to call the Attorney General to inform of this several times but nobody cares to listen to me. How and why do they let this happen? I was 12, the other girl he did it too was 14 and there has been more. At least five girls that I am aware of. Keep your kids away from him! Why in the world would North Carlonia let a SEXUAL OFFENDER SLIP THRUOUGH THECRACKS IS BEYOND ME! EVERYONE OF THEM SHOULD REGISTER, NO MATTER HOW LONG IT'S BEEN OR WHERE THEY LIVED BEFORE. PEOPLE ARE SLIPPING THRU THE CRACKS AND NOBODY CARES...
aug25th anon: Courts are letting people plea bargin off the registry. Statistics show that the recent cases are the ones most likely to reoffend and they now weasel not being on the registry. Now that makes sense (?)
Posted by Jim (not registered) on Aug 30, 2008 07:57 AM
There are underage minors in our subdivision that are having sex with almost every african america male that comes along. Reporting it to the JCSD has accomplished nothing the sex, drinking and smoking continues. The really sad part is that even though the parents are aware of the problem they continue to leave the girls in situations that allow them the time and place to have sex. The lady is right that all the 14 year old hoes are compounding the problem. I would like to see an end to such activity in our subdivision.
my 9 yr old daughter was molested by a friend ,but not penetrated so the court said if he plead guilty he would get a lesser charge ,which is what he got. he has 1 yr probation and has to register as a sex offender in warren co,
i think this is a bunch of bull shit! i hope he gets his the next time he pulls thi s on someone elses child!
to marimarr and ALL: There are two postings below, that show and uncle or relative molested a child. This is why experts say the registry is bunk. It is false security. It is those that are close to you that most likely will offend. Not the guy down the street (IMO)
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 13, 2008 11:21 PM
I disagree with some of the comments. My son has had mental issue all his life. He married and has three children. His wife cheated on him with his brother and probably with others. He lost his job and one day he caught her boyfriend leaving from the back door and then she left him. He was devastated and like in the past he attempted suicided. He moved with his biological dad to work so he could support his children. Well, at this job he met this young girl that one day she ran away and went to his house. He had been drinking for some time. He told her to leave but I guess she didnt. The cop were able to coerce for his confession and he believed them and so he admitted guilt.
I know that given different circumstances he wouldn't even got near or do anything like that. His only concern was to be with his children.
However, he shouldn't be considered a sex offender. A sex offender should be someone that has only one thing in mind: taking advantages of young childrend in any possible way they can. By luring them in their web by person or via the internet. My son isnt like that. He wishes to this day that he could have been more conscious at the time. In fact I believe that she might have raped him. But of course: some of you might not think that is possible. I did lot of research on mental and biopolar disorder and alchool and if you are intoxicated your state of mind isn't there.
So, treatment in some cases should place prison time. For some people prison time is only the beginning of the end.
The irony is that we spend billions of dollars on incarceration and less on treatment and treating this kind of desease. What kind of sense does that make? Do we put diabetics in jail, cancer victim?
We need to be carefuel folks, before you start pass judgment.
There is ALWAYS another side of the coin. (that is for the person (s) that think that never in their life and never will made a bad judgment.
But there is only ONE. And that is definitely not the one that thinks he (she) is above all.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 14, 2008 01:28 AM
There is nothing wrong with molestating a child. It is upsetting when a child does'nt get molested. It's not a crime. It is pleasure. What is a person suppose to do for sex? The answer is to molest a child. There is nothing else in the world to be more proud of. Are you trying to say that you have a problem with me molesting your child? I think not! I am allowed to molest who ever I want to molest. It's not my fault I haven't had sex. It's everybody else's fault.
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Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 27, 2008 05:16 PM
I think when they have to register. What there crime was should be revealed. Sometimes A name is ruined for the rest of there lives because a girl lied about there age. Or these are teenagers that were charged with statutory rape. It needs to betold. Was it forcible rape. Kidnapping and rape. Murder and rape. Why are they on this list? I see a man every morning that is on this list. Is he capable of grabbing my child and running with her. It frightens me that my 8 year old is around him. Or is it safe for us to be around him. I feel we should be aware , What should we fear.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Sep 28, 2008 08:43 PM
i go to this website often to see who might be out there. i am so thankful for the website.........
for the person that submitted on sept 14th....you are a very SICK individual... you bring it all on yourself....leave the kids alone...go to a hooker instead
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Oct 09, 2008 07:54 AM
My daughter is three years old and her father was just arrested for two counts of first degree statutory rape, she has been consistant with over 8 professionals and in the state of North Carolina I am sad to say it is law that children have to take the stand. So my three year old has to tell a court room what happened to her right in front of her father. I am disgusted, I will of course file for sole custody and wanted to change my childrens last names to my last name however the courts say even after what he has done I still have to ask his permission to change it!!!! The point was to get my kids away from him and his family and hopefully forget they were ever involved in his family. She is hurting inside but brave as hell, the professionals said they have never seen a child so consistant.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Oct 14, 2008 07:35 PM
How are you going to tell if some one is a sex offender or not. They don't have signs above there heads. Or around there necks. Unless you live on the pc looking peoples faces or names. You wont have a life. Unless you have nothing better to do. Besides you might be living next to one or one in your surrounding areas.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Oct 14, 2008 07:43 PM
i was molested by my father.. that was 36 years ago and they didn't do anything about it. they said that i was telling lies and everynight he did it over and over til the age of 17 when I ran away from home
The thing is that I not an America but South African, if You register criminals is the best prevention strategy ever, their data base
Posted by christina (not registered) on Oct 22, 2008 03:25 PM
I think all the sex offender should not get of of jail they should stay in there until they die thats is the way think of it
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Oct 22, 2008 03:34 PM
not everyone who is accused of rape or statutory rape are guilty. Recently a friend of mine who i've known for the past 8 years, i've worked with was charged with statutory rape all because the girl lied about how old she was. Many girls now a days look a lot older than they really are and are chaising after men. my friend works with a youth program and that charge will ruin his life and career! There should be laws that protect people from these girls who lie. my sister used to be one of those girls who lied to older men so im not only taking my friends side. Luckly for those men my father knew how my sister was and didnt file charges agaisnt them. And its not always the parents either. my father went thorugh hell tyring to contol my sister at no use.
Posted by lb (not registered) on Oct 28, 2008 11:27 AM
i just would like to say that God did not invent sex for a 40 year old male and a 14 year old girl. READ THE "BIBILE" all those convicted should be respected not for their gross voluntary action but as an individual. i still think these people should be punished for their wrongful actions as sex offenders.
Posted by anonymous (not registered) on Oct 31, 2008 04:46 AM
A little distrubing that I have a sex offender living down my street and I am single parent. What I find even more distrubing is the fact these sexual predator's addresses are not verfied on a yearly basis, let alone every 6 months... What gives?
This room is a joke!Sounds like a bunch of bull to me.I'm a register sex offender by a plea deal.The talk is about what you'll do,I'll give a box of bullets,hang them by there balls or kill them.Guess that makes you right.To start with the children should be safe at all cost.Our schools should have programs to teach our children the facts about it all and show them what to do to keep them from harms way.Our local police & shefiffs office can only do so much.If you see people around your areas that don't belong them call to have them checked out.You see cars,trucks or vans get tag numbers.Aparent has responabilites as well,teach your kids.whatch them and were thay hang out.every time you point your finger you have three more pointing back at you.Think!!!!!!!!! be responable.It's ashame it has to come from a regester sexoffender to open your eyes but its worth the effert to save 1 child from harm
My e-mail adress is email@example.com.I don't mind taking the good with the bad.I'm ashame that I spent more than half my life in prison.I know the people there,I know the signs and just maybe I might be able to help some one on how to deal with a issue.I'm a registered sexoffender by a plea deal and losing every thing behind a lie.Sheriff,police,attorney general and assistince attorney general knows my case well.Why it took them 6 years to say your a sexoffender after you've been out is beyond me...yet it's taking my life from me,my company,cars,trucks and soon both my houses.All because of a lie.My case was from 1982
Posted by dl (not registered) on Nov 13, 2008 02:42 PM
most of you people don't know what you are talking about. i was in an aol chat room about 15 years ago. everyone was trading pictures. not just porn but yes a lot of it was porn. the same thing 75% of you all do but are just to embarassed to admit it. most of the files being sent were zip files so you never know whats in it until you open it up. nothing was ever mentioned about about child pornography. the next thing i know the fbi is at my front door. the whole thing was some kind of sting. everyone in the chat room was arrested for pictures that most of us didn't even know we had. and for those of you who are saying "not me i'd fight that" not when your choices are plea bargain for 3 years probation or go to trial and face 20 years. so i got put on the registry for 10 years. but because they keep changing the law now i have to petition the court after the 10 years to get off of it. so for those of you who think you know the person just because you see them on the registry...i'd like 5 minutes alone in a locked room with you just to see if you can back your mouth up. you see i have children that i would kill or die for. so don't think you have the f***ing world figured out because you see someones name on a list. you might wind up on one yourself one day.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Nov 14, 2008 06:18 AM
This is an awesome site, especially since i have found 3 offenders in a short radius of my home. Great to know who to be on the lookout for.
The registry does not help you "look out" for offenders. Registrants are the ones who have been caught. Most offenders are known by the family or are family relatives, according to govt studies. You need to educate yourself and your children as to the real threats in their lives.(IMO)
Posted by crazy (not registered) on Nov 20, 2008 03:38 PM
Call me crazy I have never been molested but my father rapped my mother and we had to deal with all kinds of crazy crap of years now. But to those posting who have Why can you not get over it? I mean come on for real now it happened you got some form of justice out of it my mom moved on and functions in society. As far as these 14 year olds going out and saying they are older. there are some clubs that let them in and if I see them standing in a BAR I mean a legitimate bar and decide to play the game and win. Whose fault is that? Be serious too cause how many of you actually ask to see ID before you kick it off with some floosy you just met for what is one night of sex?
Posted by Newto NC (not registered) on Nov 22, 2008 10:10 PM
I think that these girls that are telling men they are older than they are should have some responsiblitly also. All girls want attention, and do not understand the severity of punishment the older man will get for believing her. As parents, we need to teach our children that there are reprecussions for lying. And for lying in this instance, big ones. I feel really bad for men in this situation. 12 year old girls these days look easily 18. As for the actual perverts that go after children, Lord keep my soul should I ever catch you.
Posted by lynn (not registered) on Dec 02, 2008 09:57 PM
The website is useless!!!! I have contacted My Space several times reporting a registered sex offender in NC and he is still on the site. In fact he has 3 different names of his sites. He has one name under his real name and I gave My Space his name and all the sites he has and they did nothing...he's still there!! And my daughter is still suffering from being a victim. It's a shame she has to know he can still have a site after what he did to her!!!!!!!
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Dec 05, 2008 06:53 PM
hey lynn the system is screwed up so bad it picks and choose if they want to or not
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Dec 10, 2008 09:35 PM
There is no way the National Sex Offender Registry can keep our children safe. Our childrens safety is up to us, the parents. Just because someone who lives in your neighborhood is on the registry does not make them a threat to your children. What do you know about your other neighbors that aren't on the registry? Does that mean you don't have to worry about them? NO! You do not know who out there is waiting and watching your children. Chances are, the person whom you are fearing lives in the very same house. More children are abused and killed by the hands of thier own parents but yet they don't have to register. This is the real problem. If you want to protect your children start in your own home.
Posted by Haley(One of the many VICTIMS) (not registered) on Dec 12, 2008 04:30 PM
THIS MESSAGE IS FOR BRYAN WHO POSTED A MESSAGE ON NOVEMBER 23, 2007. I UNDERSTAND THAT U HAVE COMMITED A SEX CRIME AND NOW U ARE SORRY FOR IT AND U WANT TO MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE. BUT WHAT ABOUT THOSE OF US WHO THE CRIME WAS ACTUALLY COMMITED ON? I AM A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ASSAULT MYSELF, NOT ONCE BUT TWICE. I AM CONSTANTLY LOOKING OVER MY SHOULDER FOR TWO DIFFERENT MEN WHO HAVE NOW ROUINED MY LIFE FOREVER. I AM ALWAYS HAVING NIGHTMARES ABOUT WAT HAPPENED TO ME. I WILL FOREVER BE HAUNTED BY THOSE HORRIBLE MEMORIES OF WHEN I WAS 13 AND ALSO WHEN I WAS 15. ANYBODY WHO CAN DO SICK THINGS LIKE THAT TO CHILDREN SHOULD BE PUNNISHED FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE JUST LIKE PEOPLE LIKE U ARE PUTTING VICTIMS LIKE MYSELF THROUGH HELL AND CONSTANT WORRY THE REST OF OUR LIVES. US VICTIMS WILL NEVER FORGET THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO US BECAUSE OF SEXUAL PREDITORS LIKE U. HOW DO U SLEEP AT NIGHT KNOWING THAT U HAVE PUT SOMEONE THOUGH HELL THE REST OF THEIR LIFE? I CAN'T SLEEP IN THE SAME BED WITH ANYONE! I WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT SCREAMING BECAUSE OF THE NIGHTMARES! I HAVE BEEN TO SEVERAL ANGER MANAGMENT CLASSES BECAUSE OF THE ANGER I STILL HAVE BUILT UP INSIDE ME. I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME PERSN AS I WAS 7 YEARS AGO BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE U! SLEEP ON THAT............
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Dec 30, 2008 08:59 AM
Once a sex offender always a sex offender.....It's like taking a dog and putting it in a locked room for awhile, then letting him out and telling him he has to be a cat now. I thank GOD for the registry and being notified everytime an offender moves close to me. You can train a dog to be good around you and maybe in a controlled environment but once he's on his own the impulse control is gone and he will re-offend. (I'm a DOG LOVER....just used the term to make a point)I believe certain offenders deserve to have their balls cut off and give them female hormones.....might curb some of those itchy actions.
Dec 30 post "Once a sex offender..." The time has come to educate yourself on this issue. (IMHO)
Posted by Feisty (not registered) on Feb 03, 2009 02:24 PM
I wish to say to all those who defend husbands...if your husband sexually took advantage of a 4 year old and 9 year old set of girls....and orally had sex with the 4 four year old...if the girls were yours...would you think this bad for walking a day in their shoes? These children are helpless, immature, little girls....is there no right and wrong anymore...just grey area? This world is sick.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Feb 03, 2009 08:48 PM
I think everyone should refer to the post from September 14 2008. Thats why we have a sex offender registry.
refer to sept post: This is not a reason to have a registry, but a reason why the registry is a waste of time and money and personnel. The Sept 14 post 2008, may be someone NOT on a registry and they are the dangerous ones. The people punished are less likely to be a threat in my opinion.
Posted by firstname.lastname@example.org (not registered) on Feb 08, 2009 08:10 AM
If a libray is across from two schools is a place of education and where kids gather. how cam we protect kids from sex offfenders. because they say it is a public library we have foubd 3 sex offenders talking to kids in the last month. this library gets 65-85 kids a day waiting on parents to pick them up.
Posted by lauren (not registered) on Feb 24, 2009 09:56 AM
i'm 13; but i know people who have been abused.
and people who have lied about abuse to put their dad in jail.
and yet; he didn't do anything. but my grandpaw did it; and he's still free.
JUSTICE PEOPLE! WE NEED JUSTICE!!!
Posted by Ticked Off-Venting (not registered) on Mar 01, 2009 05:27 PM
I am just a little pissed off right not because I fell in love with a wonderful guy and when I did, I knew this guy was a sex offender. But what did he do to make him become a sex offender was have sex with a 15 year old girl when he was 24. The girl lied about her age and even told everyone that she lied about her age. But her grandmother wasn't trying to hear that. 3 years later after being charged with indecent liberities with a minor and doing at least a year in jail, we are suffering the consequences of that girl's lies. I think that the law needs to distinguish between the different types of sex offenders because that label can mess up your life, not to mention mine. We can barely find housing and he can barely find a job because of his background. Does anyone know whether you can be registered as a sex offender and live with your child? Is that a crime also? He has a beautiful daughter and she is my step-daughter and I don't want our family broken apart. Anyways, my husband was babysitting since he can't find a darn job anywhere and the family knew about his background and they said as long as he wasn't in jail for molesting a child then cool...but guess what he got arrested last nite. He shouldn't be considered a sex offender anyway for someone lying...there are so many more important people that are molesting children in their own home that need to be looked at.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 05, 2009 07:43 AM
I used to say all sex offenders were haorrible people who deserved to die a harsh and painful death (Publicly) but that was until I met a member on my husbands side who was convisted and now has to register as a sex offender fo have sex with a girl who was 15 and he was 18...............I'll repeat again, he was 18. They were seeing each other (dating) and the parents go mad when they found out and called the cops. Situations like this should have either an entirely different label or no label at all. This boy is now a man, has 3 kids and loves his girlfriend very much. He was never a molestor. Anyway, be sure to check out sights that have the age or ages of the victims and how old the offender was when the act happened. You never know. I would feel more safe with the person mentioned above than some 30+ year old who molested a 5 year old, get me?
Posted by EAST SIDE (not registered) on Mar 24, 2009 05:30 PM
ALL SEX OFFENDERS ARE DISGUSTING. I THINK ALL SEX OFFENDERS SHOULD DIE IN HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by parvo (not registered) on Mar 27, 2009 08:17 PM
Just found this site, sad to see how people treat others. I used to work with a guy who was put on registry. We worked (the place shut down in 2008) in a place that had cameras everywhere. His son was molested by someone who, to this day, has never been found. Even though they had DNA from the guy I worked with, the father, and of the kid, and even though they proved he didn't commit the crime, he still has to sign the damn registry. The time they claim the molestation happened he was at work, and it was proven that he was there the whole shift. Ever since this happened, I have had no respect for the bullshit registry. All the damn thing is a way to "conveniently" hate someone, whether they actually did anything or not. I'm not saying that ones who actually commit the crime shouldn't be punished, but hell, I had myself fixed so I could never have a kid to be accused of molesting. Hell, you can't even spank a child anymore without being accused of rape. Although I can't prove it, I honestly believe that people who claim they are meant to bring justice on others are probably guilty of the very thing they are raging against.
Posted by dodecagon (not registered) on Apr 03, 2009 10:21 PM
Here is my question. We have a registry for sex offenders, but why not a registry for murderers, drug dealers, drunks, etc....? Crime is crime, no matter what kind of bizarre justifications people use to claim something is right and just. While I agree sex offenders should be monitored, I would much rather have a sex offender in the area than someone who has gone out and killed people. There need to be some serious looks at the laws in place and some changes made.
dodecagon: They also do not put child killers on the registry. It appears that the registry was designed to let people vent on one particular element of society. Kind of like the taliban stoning a woman for being raped.
Posted by dodecagon (not registered) on Apr 09, 2009 04:29 AM
Well, I don't know about others, but if parents were doing their job right, these kids wouldn't ever get molested in first place by these creeps. I can't tell everyone how glad I am that I am sterile, so I don't have to worry about kids or anything of that nature.
Posted by Mike (not registered) on Apr 11, 2009 10:24 PM
Hopefully what I have to say will shed a light on Sex Offenders. Some Sex Offenders not all are dangerous. The ones that are dangerous are called PREDATORS. Which means multiple arrests for sex crimes.I am a Sex Offender and a victim of sexual abuse. I was taught at an early age about sex. I was molested 3 times and 1 time I have dreams about but I don't remember anything about it.I learned of sex by my parents. I can say I lived probably the most sexual deviant childhood of anyone. I can remember being taught as a child by my stepdad how to sneak a peek at a womans vagina. Mind you I was 9 years old. We lived in a second floor apartment that had a porch and when women were in thier cars with skirts on he would show me what to look for. I can remember adults having sex with kids playing. I can remember my mother having sex in the bed next to us with pornography playing. I can go on and on.When I was arrested I never lied I told the truth what was there to hide this type of lifestyle I was taught. It was normal. How could I know it was wrong when it was right. Aren't your parents and adults in the community supposed to teach you right from wrong. I was sentenced to 5 years probation and put on the registry for life. Why me? I do agree after I got arrested I did something wrong but what purpose does it serve to have me on registry. I learned through therapy that what was going on and what happened to me was wrong. I am now a grown 35 year old man who has never been in trouble with law since.I could never fathom doing anything to a child. It disgust me every time I see it on the news. So before you judge people by what you read on a registry get to know the story first. Thers alot of good Sex Offenders out there. Not all are lurking behind bushes or wacking off in a park. Please just give a person a chance
Posted by SUNNY (not registered) on Apr 14, 2009 04:09 PM
I BELIEVE THAT SEXUAL OFFENDERS SHOULD BE PUT UNDER JAIL FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE.I BELIEVE THAT THEY DON;T REALLY UNDERSTAND HOW THE VICTIM FAMILY FEEL BUT OF COURSE DEEP DOWN IN THEY HEAD THEY DON'T CARE HOW OTHERS FEEL AND THAT IS JUST SAD.WHY THINK OF DOING SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO SOMEONE KID,CHILD,BABY.THINK BEFORE YOU ACT STOP AND THINK ABOUT HOW WOLD YOU FEEL IF SOMEONE/SOMEBODY DID THAT TO ONE OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS OR YOUR LIL BOY/GIRL LIFE IS TO SHORT FOR SOMEONE TRYING TO DO THINGS LIKE THAT. YOU NOT HURTING NO ONE BUT YOURSELF THAT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Posted by anonomon (not registered) on Apr 15, 2009 04:34 AM
I'm just curious. Prove to me how requiring someone to sign a piece of paper and taking it to some random building somewhere to say they are officially "registered" is going to prevent anyone from doing anything wrong? Even if they have GPS tracking on them, how will that prevent them from getting another victim? After reading through all these things, I just realize how damn stupid these laws really are. If someone is truly guilty, punish them, but look at each case and see what really happened. All this crap is the media's way of telling us what to hate, and what not to hate. I don't see anyone who killed somebody having to put up with this crap.
anon 15th: Your are correct. George Orwell, 1984. In his book, big brother has a face put on tv every day, for people to hate and rage about. This keeps them from thinking how the government actually controls them. What Orwell predicted is now.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Apr 16, 2009 11:54 PM
This I think this sex offender thing is getting out of hand. I live in Oklahoma and you are a sex offender for 15 years if you urinate in public. What the crap is that? They umbrella everyone under the same title, with no difference. So if you pee outside or you molest a child its all the same to the court.
Posted by dawn (not registered) on Apr 26, 2009 02:50 PM
i dont think a man should be arrested for here say where are there rights its a womens world and it should be equale davidson county nc is the worst about being rail roaded and they get away with it something needs to be done they have husbands and wifes married working together in the same court room as a team and we were a victim of a here say crime with no evedince against us
Posted by debbie (not registered) on Apr 28, 2009 07:12 PM
Its sad when a young man is labeled as a sex offender and the crime was never sexual content at all. It was a burglary and a minor child was in the house. Now his life is ruined for it.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on May 02, 2009 01:05 AM
Too few people know (or care) how many stories there are like the ones told on the recent MSNBC's "Witch Hunt". I am a mother of a mentally-ill man who was falsely accused of sexual abuse over 13 years ago by a child of 8 who lived with 3 criminal uncles and a mother and older sister who were prostitutes and drug addicts. She lived in one of Baltimore's worst neighborhoods filled with prostitutes, addicts and criminals. Ken was much too trusting of people so he was an easy scapegoat. There was no evidence except her word against his. His attorney never told us this was a felony &never told us a lot more he should have. An overly aggressive states attorney said Ken “looked weird”. Ken’s attorney said the state’s attorney seems like he “hates your son”. Ken’s final lawyer did not want to go to trial; he made that clear with his anger when I suggested we think about the plea. Ken would have been a poor witness because of his mental illness and his appearance (bad teeth and skin). He took an alford plea. By being days late for registering a change of address, he went to prison & stayed in isolation for 2 ˝ years.These cases are not so simple and the registry is an abomination of civil rights to men who are not dangerous people.The girl who lied about my son finally told the truth two years ago. She gave a very strong deposition and she writes letters from prison begging my forgiveness and his. (she has been a prostitute/drug addict like her mother/sister). Why did she lie? She was jealous of the relationship my son had with her older sister who she was very attached to and lying was a way of life in her family/neighborhood.) This girl looked the victim & my son Looked guilty but it was just the opposite. He was a lamb among wolves. . My son is still on the registry. His appeal was denied. Its very easy for people to believe the guilt if someone is accused. But the states attorneys & others find it hard to believe when someone who lied finally tells the truth. Innocent people need to be separated from those who are guilty & truly dangerous. Unfortunately, I have learned there are far too many families who have had to go through this agony and very few people care.
Posted by ANONYMOUS (not registered) on May 12, 2009 11:10 AM
THIS IS A GREAT WEB SITE AND IT IS HELPFUL. BUT THEIR ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT MAY HAVE HAD SEX WITH A YOUNGER GIRL WHEN HE WAS A TEEN. AND NOW IT IS ON HIS RECORD FOR LIFE. I BELIEVE WE NEED TO WATCH WHEN WE LABEL PEOPLE. I DO THINK MEN AND WOMEN THAT MESS WITH KIDS OR RAPE SOMEONE SHOULD BE FIXED WHERE THEY CAN NOT HAVE SEX ANY MORE.
Posted by Amber (not registered) on May 13, 2009 12:17 PM
I believe that the stupid lowlife childmolesters should be put to death because they messed with the little young girls. they couldnt get none from thier aged people so they think they can mess around with who ever. IF i was in their position i would kill myself because i know that in the future someone is going to kill me any ways.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on May 15, 2009 07:07 PM
There are so many victims out there this site is informative I am a Mom and I DO Not want any of these people around my childrean
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on May 22, 2009 05:02 AM
I just don't understand this hysteria. I was born with my parents being 14 and 15, my parents were born when their parents were 13, on both sides. All of my great aunts/uncles etc. were born when their parents were 12 or 13. Now if you so much as look at a child, you are considered a child molester whether you did anything or not. All this thing does is tell people who to hate, not why. I have actually looked up several of these just randomly, and found that what was supposedly done really wasn't criminal in the first place. I support punishing the ones who actually do something wrong, but years ago none of this never happened and I honestly can't understand why it happens now. I had myself fixed, just because of these dumb laws. If parents did their jobs right, their kids wouldn't be getting molested in the first place.
Posted by Mike (not registered) on May 26, 2009 06:54 PM
Can anyone tell me how are the residency restrictions in Western NC. I live in FL now and am thinking of buying a house and moving to NC. Do offenders get harrassed? I just want to live a peacefull life and really don't want to bother with anyone. Just by myself. Thanks for your help!!!!
Posted by Gods Son (not registered) on Jun 01, 2009 11:51 AM
LORD JESUS forgive the hearts of all those who write there comments about sex offenders.Now for all those passing out judgement about people u dont know i pray u have a change of heart because the measure you use to judge others; JESUS will use to judge you and that's heavy because he said even if you look on a woman to lust after her you have already committed adultery with her in your heart.To all sex offenders even those who were convicted but were innocent.Remember american laws are made to make money all criminals are just dollars signs.Sex offenders need to stick together.we dont have a choice.Our backs are against the wall we need to start networking.Despite what people are saying or how they feel about us, JESUS died for the whole world, GOD Loves us he hasnt given up on us. I say lets stop wasting time with ignorant people.I mean read what's being written by some of these people.I maybe a sex offender and shouldnt be, but i do not hate anyone.These people have no conscience no love no mercy.There comments are hateful and just obserd.yet they believe their good people.JESUS is coming back very soon.To all sex offenders that are CHRISTIANS. OUR LORD expects us to do more. Forget what people are saying and thinking we are still redeemed.Some of us have an anointing from GOD that he is waiting to use and the devil is using this sex offender stuff to discourage us.Im sick of it.Lets start sex offender ministries since our so called brothers and sisters in christ don't want us in there congregations.God is still God JESUS is still LORD the lost still need to be saved. we have been labeled but for lots of us our families now we are not monsters. Those who are the monsters we need to look past what they have done to children or even the rapist.Remember EPHESIANS the 6:12. HEY LUCIFER aka satan,the devil,the serpent, the dragon and accuser of the brethren. I know your the god of this world and your contolling the system.But im more than an conquerer through JESUS CHRIST who loves me and has defeated you.ITS WAR TIME UNTIL THE RETURN OF JESUS!
To God's Son: (How the hell did you come up with that one?) How dare you bring God's name into this, and how dare you even try to preach to me. You are a sick, sick, INCURABLE SOB, and you can't wait to get your hands on another inncent child, can you? I wish you all would huddle together, holds hands, and console one another while we, the victims, light a torch to your disgusting, perverted, inhuman souls. You all deserve to die and I wish you would. YOU should pray I never take the Judge's seat, because I'd be the last pair of eyes you ever looked into.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jun 02, 2009 08:05 AM
Why can't we all just get along. I will say this though. The bible says thou shall not pass judgement for they will be judged themselves.Thou shall not hate. Thou shall forgive.Well anyways. All this anymosity towards sex offenders in todays society has got to stop. We are getting nowhere.This sex problem has been going on for a long time but now its being brought to light. I have a problem with adults molesting children or assulting women. I do have a problem with children young teenagers getting thier lives ruined by these laws. Young people will mimic what they are shown or taught. Hence when a parent curses then laughs when the child curses it gives the child a thought of its funny so i'll keep doing it.I will tell you i'm a sex offender.I am also a victim of sexual abuse. I'm not going to go into details.I can tell you I NEVER molested a child!!! I was arrested at 16.I am now 36. I can remember being molested when I was 7 by a son of my parents friend.I can also remember being molested by my friend when we had sleepovers in the tent in a backyard. He was about 4 years older than me.I was also molested by a woman when I was a young boy.My child hood was a constant sex fest. Everybody was screwing everybody constantly. The person upstairs with person across the street and so forth.This was going on for years. Most of the time with children playing. My stepdad would leave for work he worked the overnight shift and then my Mom would entertain men.I guess my mom needed to feel wanted after all of the abuse she suffered by my stepdad.I'm not putting all the blame on my mom,I love my mom but my stepdad was a mean SOB he would beat her then the children. If you didn't eat your dinner fast enough and when you asked for more he would through the food on the floor and make you eat it like a dog. Not only did I suffer from sexual abuse with no one to talk to I also suffered from physical and emotional abuse. I remember one night it was in the winter and he beat the crap out of me. I somehow got away and ran out of the house I found 2 police officers I had marks all over my body they brought me back home talked to him and said if this happens again you will be arrested apparently that didn't matter and as soon as they left he beat the crap out of me again for running to the police. I lived in fear all my childhood. Who was there to protect me?? WHO!!!!!!!!!!!! When he finally got sick and went to a nursing home we were moved to a hotel provided by the state because my Mom was on welfare. It was one of those cheezy hotels. The kind that played x rated movies. Well it was one that had 2 beds my mom slept on one bed and my 2 brothers and sister slept on the other. My mom would have sex with men while pornography was playing.I could write a book with more stuff than I can write here. When I was arrested I couldn't understand why. What was I arrested for. I never denied anything. What was there to deny. I never did anything wrong.How could I have done something wrong. I was taught this. I lived this. This is the way I was brought up.I realized after I was sentenced and started Sex Offender therapy that everything that happened to me was wrong. What I did was wrong.So for all of you who think Sex offenders can't be helped by therapy you are wrong it helped me tremendousely.I finally had someone to talk to. I know now that I could never hurt someone the way I was hurt. I know how much pain it is. When can I move on. Everyday I live with these sex offender laws I am reminded what happened to me. When is it my chance to move on,to forget. I have never been arrested or in trouble with the law ever since. Am I threat to society no I am not.
Posted by I hate humanity! (not registered) on Jun 03, 2009 08:17 AM
It seems to me that all of those who are on this site in general are playing the Lamb(victim) and Wolf(victimizer) lines of thought, and I have only one thing to say to all of this: Maybe it might be better if humanity as a whole were eliminated from the face of existence. I bet god would be breathing better & the rest of existence be relieved if humans didn't exist. Christian or not, all of you are pathetic examples of your species. Do the universe a favor, and die off already!! God-damned Humans!
Posted by GODS SON (not registered) on Jun 03, 2009 11:02 AM
hey ljones one i was not guilty two ive been a victim of molestation as well as sexual abuse from family members when i was in elementary school.All sexual assalt charges are not against children.but it's ignorant people who see sex offender and automatically think pedophile or something with a child.Your most common charge is statutory rape.which is not rape it's a 15 year old with someone older.so if a female or male lie about their age and you fall for it then your a sex offender.its easy to say someone is sick when your outside looking in and i can guarantee you have slept with young girls your just one of the many who has never got caught.Just like so many others who consider sex offenders evil.I hate having to register but when i see some of the offenders who do.My spirit grieves because these people do need help.one day i will come off the registry but i suck it up for now because the registry is not all that bad considering some of the ones out there.Im not upset with the people who think like you.I understand your beef im just saying look at the soul of a person past the fault and see the need.You and many others have been hurt badly and have no forgiveness towards anyone and if wanting me dead is helping you sleep at night i guess you can hate me all you want.thank God your not a judge or ruler of any kind its DA's and people like you who are in the justice system that never look for truth just past judgement.but your day and all the other unjust judges is coming sooner than you think.LUCIFER IM STILL COMING FOR YOU AND I WILL CAST YOU OUT WHERE EVER I FIND IN THE MIGHTY AND HOLY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH.
People that are on this sight are Victims in their own diffrent ways. Some are falsely accused, and others are just what htis sight is about. Either way you look at it, there is a reason for this sight, and if narrow minded people like yourself post comments on here such as yours what good is it to even go on a sight of this nature? To me it sounds like you have a problem in general with life itself, and there is a Org. on line for people in your state of mind set called Rain, you might want to try this sight, and not comment on this one. Hex
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jun 06, 2009 03:10 PM
Hey Mike, I know that Sampson county is cool People dont harass sex offenders as long as your not some predator preying on kids.
Posted by Mike (not registered) on Jun 08, 2009 08:42 PM
Thanks anonymous. I know how people can be when you live in a small town. I live in Fl now like I said and I don't get bothered. Maybe because I don't bother with anyone. No i'm not a predator looking for kids. I was arrested at 16 for having sex with my 14 yo girlfriend.Arrested for what so many teenagers do in high school. Daddy didn't like it so the rest is history.Where exactly is Sampson. I was looking to move to Haywood.I lived there 10 years ago but I didn't have to register. Funny how you don't have to register from the age of 16 until your 30 and now your 35. So I guess after so many years of not being a risk all of a sudden you are.Thanks Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jun 11, 2009 03:03 PM
Listen up. Just more reason you have to fear everyday people more than registered sex offenders.The most recent case is in FL. FDLE arrested 77 people for child porn and guess what only 2 are registered sex offenders. So that means 75 people never arrested for a sex crime before just committed a sex crime.Everybody today knows about sex registry and sex crimes but did it stop the 75 everyday average person from having child pornography. Apparently not!!!!! So no matter what law is passed or how many miles away you want these people away from you,you are never going to stop someone from doing what they want. Peace!
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jun 16, 2009 09:36 AM
There is one thing people seem to be missing. The sex offender list doesnt give enought details of the crime. If you are 19 or older, and have sex with someone who is 17, that is statutory rape and if convicted you have to register on this list. Now, let a 17 year old kill someone, they are tried as an adult. Whats the difference? Its not the same as someone attacking a child, or forcing themselves on someone against their will. I think the list should give more details, and the courts need to look into what is considered statutory rape. Im sorry, but someone old enough to be convicted as an adult should not be able to scream "underage" when it comes to consensual sex.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jun 22, 2009 09:37 PM
My daughter accused my husband (her step dad) of messing with her and he got in trouble and etc. but PASSED 2 lie detectors and an Abel Assetment test and was still presumed guilty and I knew where my husband was at time of alleged accusations and he was INNOCENT. I LOVE my daughter and my husband, but my ex husband (daughter's real dad) had it in for both me and my husband now. He did NOT want me to be a part of our daughter's life and he did not like my husband now. Our lawyer didn't do much to help us and he got 5 yr probation and listed on register for 10 yrs for a crime he did not commit and NO ONE will help us. JUSTICE SUCKS!!! I believe they ought to make kids take lie detector test when they accuse someone especially when its an innocent person.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jul 08, 2009 01:06 AM
I was dating a man last year and one day while "googling" his name for fun I found out he is a sexual predator in Florida. How come he doesn't have to register in North Carolina, the crime happened in 2003. After I broke up with him and kicked him out I found out I was pregnant. I'm due in 6 weeks and I'm scared that he will try to take my baby. Does anyone know what can be done?
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Jul 12, 2009 01:20 PM
As asked previously but w/o reply, can you marry a sex offender if you have a child who is a minor?
I am kind of torn with this subject and I know I shouldn't b/c I have always been a firm believer that sex offenders should be locked up , or eye for eye, until a friend of mine got in a situation, and now he is labeled as a monster for life, which is something he is not. What about situations like his, He was a senior in HS, just turned 19, met a girl at a party, they met, striked up conversation, got to know one another, with beer in her hand, she told him she was 17, he had NO reason to question that, they were both highschoolers, shared high school stories, she was a beautiful girl, lip ring, wore rockstart makeup and dressed like a victorian secret model, then she proceeded to get in her car and leave with "her" friend, they exchanged numbers, started seeing one another, and of course adventually had sex. 2 months into the relationship, sheriffs showed up at his door, She was had just turned 14. Her mother found out, and called the authorities. He was arrested, sent to jail, and now at age 20 is labeled for life, had a scholorship for med school, and lost it. Now hes having to work a minimum wage job and can't go any further in life. While this girl, now 15, is still on myspace and facebook with her "naughty girl photos" as she has them labeled, protraying herself at a 18 year old. In a case like this, When are the parents held responsible for letting their 14 year old child stay at home alone long enough to take their car out and go to a party, or when are they held accountable for buying the kinds of cloths that this girl wore on a daily basis, that shouldnt have been bought to begin with? When are they held accountable for not knowing where their 14 year old daughter is when she is out having sex with multiple men lying about her age? Its cases like this where I feel the sex offender laws hurt the wrong people. Dont get me wrong, lock up the predators, the ones that truely do hurt children, or violent rapists, and protect those victims. But what about the few "offenders" that are victims. Any views ??
Posted by tweetybird41 (not registered) on Jul 15, 2009 02:50 AM
MY DAUGHTER WAS MOLESTED IN 2004 BY MY NEICES'S HUSBAND,HE SERVED 16 MONTHS GOT OUT ON JANUARY 9,2009 AND REOFFENDED 3 MONTHS LATER.HIS PROJECTED RELEASE NOW IS NOVEMBER,2010.WHY IS HE NOT GETTING MORE TIME,HE BROKE PROBATION AND MOLESTED 2 GIRLS THIS LAST TIME,WHY ARE THERE NOT TOUGHER LAWS,THAT'S WHY THESE CREEPS KEEP DOING IT.HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE ON PROBATION FOR 5 YEARS FOR WHAT HE DID TO MY DAUGHTER,HE SHOULD HAVE TO AT LEAST SERVE THEM FOR REOFFENDING,BUT NO HE ONLY HAS TO SERVE 16 MONTHS.HOW MANY MORE CHILDREN DOES HE HAVE TO HURT BEFORE JUSTICE IS DONE.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Aug 13, 2009 11:05 AM
I just want to say that you cannot judge someone by their status. You have innocent guys out there that end up where they are because they married a psychopath, who makes up these lies. They should just leave if they no longer want to be married to that person. Be careful to judge, God will only be there judge when it comes to the end!
Posted by thisisbs (not registered) on Aug 27, 2009 08:37 PM
I am so sick of seeing people say lock these offenders up throw away the key, or we need harsher laws that dictate the lives of these offenders, or I want to keep my child safe. DO YOU PEOPLE REALIZE THAT BY MAKING HARSHER LAWS TO PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN YOU MAY VERY WELL BE SETTING THEM UP TO BE HURT BY THESE VERY SAME LAWS! Do you realize how difficult it is to curb human primal instincts? Its gotten to the point where anyone can claim they've been raped or molested and win their cases in court and destroy the accused's lives permantly for something that may not have even happened. What these laws have done is create fear among the population. Someone said that a sex offender can be a "good" person on the outside but they never change on the inside. That is the most bs response I've seen so far. EVERYONE can change. If they couldn't then society wouldn't get anywhere. Locking more and more people up is NOT the answer. Thats a good way for tax payers to spend money I can assure you. Throwing people in jail does nothing but keep them away from society for a bit, and when they get out they are 10x's worse than when they went in. So many laws make it so easy to end up in jail it's not even funny anymore. Regardless of who you are or how good of a person you are you can still end up in the wrong place at the wrong time and be accused of something and thrown in jail. Congrats guys thats where tons of laws have gotten us. I mean do you even realize the reprecussions of these laws have on our society? I mean heck I'm 18, and now because of all this I'm to afraid to date anyone or even go to my own prom because I might be accused of something and hauled off to prison and have my life ruined for good. Child molestation 15 and below is very bad! Rape is very bad as well. But laws do NOT protect people. They just issue harsh consequences, YOU the PERSON are responsible for protecting yourself. You are in fear of being raped? Carry a knife, pepper spray or a firearm and I guarentee anyone that messes with you will think twice. You cannot carry a cop on your back. While yes you can get the person back in court and take vengance, but that doesn't mean you'll stop the action from taking place. What's done is done and no ammount of venegance will every make things right in your life because it STILL happened. At a party about to get drunk and afraid of what might happen? Think twice about drinking the people you are around because they are most likely getting drunk as well and arn't thinking clearly. Child Molestation is alot more difficult, because children can't defend themselves and harsh restrictions should apply here, but only for 14 year olds and below. FORCED molestation should have strong consequences, if a 15 year old agrees to someone maybe 4 years older, its not right to destroy the "offenders" life because someone feels its wrong or evil even though that person agreed to the sexual act. Teach your kids to respect themselves and about sex. If you are not a violent offender or are not a repeat offender then you should not be on this list! You are causing hundreds of thousands of people to become outcasts in society. Destroying their lives, their families lives and even their kids lives. Yes penalties to sex offenders, but to an extent. This is being blown way out of proportion and is harming our community, not protecting it. Show SOME kind of remorse for these people if it was bad circumstances or if they never forced sexual contact. And quit being Evil to these people as well by outcasting them from soceity. This website does not explain what went down during the offense and it causes people to treat these people horribly. Empathy is something the ones that say kill sex offenders, or torture them, or throw them behind bars. Because that sex offender could very well be you someday for w/e reason. It could be your brother, sister, your mother, your father, husband, wife, kids, family in general, or friends. NO ONE is safe from this law. One mistake and boom....its over.
Posted by boing (not registered) on Sep 19, 2009 10:01 PM
I've figured this crap out. These dumbass laws are basically the same as changing all laws to one simple conclusion: instant execution. Run a red light? You should have your head blown off. Steal a 25 cent piece of gum from a store, you guessed it, instant death. That is the only way I can make sense of this hysteria. The laws are so damn warped that you don't even have to have ever touched a child or even know who the child is to be branded for life for something that never happened in the first place. And, for you nuts who think you are "holier than thou", if you are judging someone else, you are no better than the person you are judging. Look in the bible, if you have enough sense to read it and apply it. No wonder people want to date older people now. Date someone 20, have somebody claim they are underage, and bam, sex offender. These laws are ruining lives. I am not saying people who are truly guilty don't need to be punished, but hell, even serial rapists and murderers don't have to put up with this shit. Everyone wants to talk about war, I think there needs to be another damn civil war in this country. Hell, I married my wife back in '44, she was 14, I was 13. Got 5 kids, 23 grandkids, and 12 great grand kids. Now you try to marry or date someone that young, you go to prison for the rest of your damn life. Even after going to war, I thought I fought to make this country a better place for my family. It deeply hurts me to see what my contribution to this country has brought on.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 20, 2009 04:05 PM
You know its not always there fault these stupid girls that are under 18 they know how to dress up and then the men thinks they suppose to go after them but its the parents fault to buy girls outfits to make them older and then they blame on men.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Sep 20, 2009 04:11 PM
Parents should look more of what there kids are wearing now if the person keeps on molesting inicent kids they really need help.
Posted by Jeremy D. Cummings (not registered) on Sep 22, 2009 10:43 AM
I just want to say that I have a offender in our family (No Longer considered family), and I have to say that because of this site and others like it more children are safe. I am a father of 5 and three of those are little girls and I would personally kill the offender before the law got envolved and would gladly accept a life sentence for that. However, there is a need for courts and the law as well as sites like this so please keep up the work and if funds ever become a issue, I for one would donate!
Posted by spontanous (not registered) on Oct 15, 2009 11:29 AM
I'm trying to find out if my boyfriend's dad ever sexual assualted him in any way possible or anything I can find.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 10, 2010 07:57 PM
I am married to a sex offender. They have the right to live on the streets. My husband spent 18 years in prison for his mistake. Give them a chance. Everyone isnt a bad person.
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on Mar 27, 2010 02:16 AM
This is a good site. when my daughter was molested when she was 8 by a neighbor and a friend of 5 years. back then the laws weren't as harsh as they are now. i wish they were. And you can blame the children, that get hurt by these sick people. because they are sick and everyone should know about them so we can protect our children and ourselves.
Posted by curious (not registered) on Apr 19, 2010 10:55 AM
How far away from parks are sex offenders suppose to be?
Posted by Anonymous (not registered) on May 16, 2010 01:10 PM
Ignorance is rampant in these comments. Uneducated, illiterate, super-religious, puritanical, close-minded, non-empathetic, mob-mentality, fear-mongering bull! I know what it's like to be a victim and an offender. I'm trying to pick my life up and do the right things but I'm tired of the public mentality on this subject. Not all offenders are kid-snatching, pedo-freaks who can't control themselves. I deserved my punishment and I understand the consequences of my actions. What I say doesn't mean a damn thing to anyone, it's only my actions from here on out that matter.
Posted by misjudged (not registered) on May 19, 2010 01:42 PM
I dont think its fair how all sex offenders are judged, just because you can find me on the map doesnt mean I like children. I was 19 and she was 15. I remember when I was 15 I had boyfriends older than 20, yet I got labeled a sex offender and now how live and be judged for it.
Posted by lololoolool (not registered) on Jun 06, 2010 02:27 AM
I have been raped and this website helped me find my culprit.
Posted by Cindy (not registered) on Mar 29, 2011 09:56 PM
I recently found out that my neighbor was convicted of sexual battery and is listed on the sex offender registry. How can I find out if he assulted an individual under the age of 18. I am planning to put my house on the market and his decision to buy a house next door may prevent me from doing that.